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Their Is A Girl That I Need Help With.Please Help Me!

Just to give you some information on me, I’m seventeen yeas old and started Uuniversity about a month ago. So far it’s been a nice experience, but I still find myself feeling lonely sometimes, but lately I haven’t been feeling as lonely as I used to. Up until now, I’ve only had one girl friend.

To get to the main problem, their is a girl in one of my classes that is incredibly beautiful who sits near me.I’ve had a few chances to talk to her, but I haven’t, until today.

Basically what happened was, we were leaving class and she was infront of me. On the way out of the building, she held the door open for me, so I smiled at her and said thank-you. She didn’t smile back at me or reply to me.

So I’m of two minds. On the one hand, I’m glad I actually managed to say something to her. on the other had, I feel sort of rotten beacuse she didn’t say anything back to me or smile.

So I guese what I’m asking is, what should I do next? Should I try to talk to her again? Or should I just forget about her?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

You should have grabbed the door from her and should have said, “after you.” The would have been the gentlemanly thing to do.

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jacob_blacks_wifey offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

try small talk
when you see her pass by
say hi and just keep on walking
iif she says hi back shes ok
but if she didnt she probably didnt hear you
say it the next day
and see what happens

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sweetz offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

yeah yeahh totally agree with jacob…just dont over-assume things…boys always do that :S
just be nice, get to know her slowly, and REMEMBER, just be yourself :)

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
You should have grabbed the door from her and should have said, “after you.” The would have been the gentlemanly thing to do.

yes, but that dosen’t exactly help me now.

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lion78 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (20 hours, 55 minutes after post)

you should talk her again with confidence and after that it depends on the situation that she likes to talk or not if not then forget about her if you feel that she likes to talk wity you then make her friend and share with each an other

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benhunt2 offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 week after post)

its like your not on her radar yet. its early to tell but see what you can do, sounds like she is polite enough to hold the door open she will be polite enough to reply, however u can never tell as she may of been in la la land thinking about her work..
give her a smile next time and try to catch the door b4 she does! ;-)

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