How do I go from friends to boyfriend?

C. S.

How do I go from friends to boyfriend?

We’ve gone on one date and we hang out. I’m seriously interested in him, and he’s seriously interested in me… But we can’t seem to make it past “friends” in action.

Neither of us have kissed/held hands/etc. with anyone… so any little move seems like a huge leap. We’re both 19, and we have an amazing relationship.

I have another date with him this Thursday.

Any suggestions?

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

hes being a wuss… lol, anyways you just need to make him feel comfortable around you physically. when you talk to him o rhe makes you laugh touch his shoulder or hand. just do something stupid that will get him to reciprocate and man up

Keckers 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Shove your tongue down his throat.
Wooooooooo!!!!
Xd
Just bring up the intimacy subject with him,i’m sure it’d be fine.

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mar98 7 #
Dracut, MA, US | 2 months ago (43 minutes after post)

I agree with anon you are gonna have to try and lead him into it if he won’t initiate contact soon. Nothing wrong with that. It can be in a subtle way.
Some guys just need a kick when it comes to that stuff especially if they have never done it before.

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courtybubble 188 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (4 hours, 12 minutes after post)

just grab his hand while youre walking along or something, dont make a big deal out of it, because its really not.

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