I have a question about me and my gf or technically friend i think.
So i have been with her for 5 months now, and just recently she left for school the start of september. We were planning to do a long term relationship and she was only 4 or 5 hrs away. At first it was very strong, then lately it fell slowly and she didn’t talk to me as much. I kept it strong as much as i could but didn’t get much effort back from her. I talked to her about it and then it got really strong again. Then all of a sudden, one night she calls me and ask me “if this is working.” I ask her “what do you mean by that?” she said she doesn’t know if she’s strong enough for a long term relationship. she started telling me sorry and that she didn’t know it would be so hard. I tried telling her it’s just a bump in the road and it has only been 1 month…? It hasn’t even been that long that she’s been gone. It might have ended right there but she had to get off the phone and had to call me back. When she did, she asked if i cared for her, i said yes. She then said i think we should take a break and be friends until she comes home for thanksgiving and we talk about how the past months have been and whats gonna happen. I understood sorta not really, i asked her if she was gonna date other guys. SHe said no she was gonna be faithful to me and so would i. So i just don’t really know whats gonna happen, or what to do. She said she swore she would talk to me but its been 3 weeks and i’ve gotten 2 texts from her. I don’t know if i should text her because i’m assuming she still wants to talk to me. I’ve been giving her space cuz i guess thats what she wants…?, but i feel like if i don’t talk to her or say something like a “how are you doing” i might screw things up when she comes home, cuz she’ll think i didn’t want to talk to her.
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