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Last week my ex girlfriend who screwed me over tried reaching out to me.

After all the heartache I went through I told her I moved on like she asked and her regret was too little too late. I started dating another girl… We work in the same building so this week she is completely ignoring me, almost making it obvious. I guess I find this strange because I told her that I forgave her and there needs to be no bad blood between us. I acted very noble for a guy who was stabbed in the back by a girl that I loved. Anyway what’s her deal? does she think I’m going to try to talk to her or something. After all the supposed sincerity she’s acting very cold. She seems really sad too… But I’m no fool, as much as I loved her my new girl treats me like gold. I feel like I have to ignore her because she’s ignoring me. Is it because she sees me happy and that angers her? does it eat her up to know I have moved on? And why is she acting like the victim here? she brought this on herself.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

it seems like u want to hear dat she’s unhappy bcs ur happy…..its understandable bcs of wat she did to u….but don’t lower yourself to her immature level

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

No actually I want to be cordial and she seemed to be on the same page. Now it’s just back to the awkwardness. I suffered and I just want this to be over.But her actions just make me want to avoid her.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

so do so

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 193 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

shes just finally realised what she lost, is all, and sees that you are happy and is jealous.
just ignore her, shes being pathetic and childish.

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1 month, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

i guess it’s a bit if what comes around goes around. Even though she cheated on me I still have compassion for her.

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Agaa offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 28 minutes after post)

im sorry but i have to say a very greatly deserved well done i wasnt able to do that but its glad to see youve still remained civil even after everything. what id suggest now though is enjoy that happiness if shes ignoring you it was clearly a jealousy thing so i wouldnt worry about it unless she brings the subject up again.

hope that helped somewhat

jay

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 weeks after post)

sometimes people feel as if they need their claws stuck in someone to have a standby… A just incase they decide they want to play with them again kinda person. Its possible she’s not sad over lost love, but lost territory. Be civil. Be strong. Be unavailable to her, no matter how sad she may look. If she’s manipulative its just part of her game. If she’s not she could be realizing what she has lost, but that doesn’t mean she wouldn’t do it again.

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