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I feel so desperate because my husband always sleeps and leave me alone.

At the week days i tell myself it’s ok cuz he have work tomorrow but he does it even at the weekends or he did something even worse, he travels leaving me at my Mom’s house. I get sick of his behavior and what deeply hurt me is that we are only married for 8 months. I don’t know what to do to change his behavior
Please help.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Sounds like you and him are due for marriage counseling session. It’s too early in your marriage to be having problems already. Have you confronted him about this? If not, it’s time you do because it’s going to get worse if you don’t speak up.

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beatricegalant offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Leaves you alone and when you are together he sleeps? O, o!!!! Either he is sick and not telling you, or he has a girlfriend. Talk to him and let him tell you what his reasons are.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Just sleeps in a different bed or a different house?

Maybe he can’t fall asleep with someone else in the bed?

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

My wife works the night shift at the hospital and has had the same complaints of myself. Funny thing is i do have a tough time falling asleep without her. After several long talks we have found a mutual agreement. During the weekends i will make an effort to stay up with her. Really it comes down to having a reason for him to stay up with you. Have a topic of coversation or a movie anything to keep his attention. I know it’s easy to overlook the small things in a relationship it takes an effort by both of you to change things. He should be willing to flex.

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