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Guys - when is too soon?

I’ve been interested in this guy for some weeks but really we just spent 2 days chatting it up. I got his screenname. If I IM him the day after is it too soon?
And when is too soon to add his Facebook?

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classicrock1818 offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

i say go for it. guys love it when you show interest and dont make them make all the efforts to reach out. if a guy has to be the one calling and texting every day, they get sick of it because they feel like you arent interested or arent taking it seriously. so i say go for it

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Well for me it was a pleasent surprise to know that the girl i was interested in added me on facebook the day i met her and had a decent IM session that day.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 183 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

i really dont think that adding someone on a social networking site is going to make the slightest bit of difference to anything.
its.just.facebook.

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