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Is not having friends a barrier to a dating life?

I’m really worried that not having any friends or any social life whatsoever is going to hurt my chances in dating : ( Is it true? Girls might think it’s weird when a guy that’s trying to get with them doesn’t have any friends or interesting stuff going on.

I’m angry about not having friends when everyone else does. I meet cool people a lot and then they lose interest in me very fast, the friendship goes nowhere.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

not at all.Some people are more attracted to the elusive types.
It adds to your mystery.

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adjlkdfsa offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Thanks, well I guess mystery helps but I’m really stuck as far as a social life, it’s getting me down, I don’t want to be elusive. Can a person really be that boring to tears, that everyone you meet loses interest? I guess so b/c I’m that person : / Any tips on making and especially keeping friends?

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

I believe there is a circle of like-minded people for pretty much any group. What is it you like? What is it you are interested in?

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kdewroses offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (58 minutes after post)

Try to find people that you have things in common with. What do you enjoy doing? Reading? Video games? Computer games? Card games? Sports? Fishing or hunting?
Maybe joining a club at school that you enjoy and along the way and the nice people will come around. One thing is for sure you have to try to put yourself out there and even “going out on a limb” and outside your comfort zone to make friends might be the trick

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