my life is in shambles.
I am homeless my credit is ruined my children as hard as I’ve tried wish to run with the popularly unpopular crowd. My management company is doing all they can to destroy me for asserting my rights. My goddamn husband lied to me and never told me he had a wife in his home country. I help until I have nothing left for myself or my children. I am a compulsive helper. I am almost 40 and my mother still asks me where i am going! While she doesn’t bat an eye at my sister. I love everyone in the world (platonically and no one cares.no one really gives a ****! My cell phone which contained all of my evidence to be submitted in housing court next week was just stolen last night. I don’t care about the phone but the documentation on the phone…ughhhhhhhh GOD What am I doing wrong so that I may fix it
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Where do you live maybe we can reasearch some places to help you. I am sorry that all of this has happened to you. I think that the more negative you feel the worse it will get, so try (as difficult as that is sometimes) to stay positive. Your helping others is a good thing, and maybe it is now time to let others help you.
I live in New York City. I attend Columbia university. And hope to be able to return to school in the next week or so.
Thank you for your kindness. It so funny that tonight my cell was stolen but your kind words made me smile and forgive the person who had no idea that my phone was my lifeline. Thanks again.
my life is in shambles. I am homeless my credit is ruined my children as hard as I’ve tried wish to run with the popularly unpopular crowd. My management company is doing all they can to destroy me for asserting my rights. My goddamn husband lied to me and never told me he had a wife in his home country. I help until I have nothing left for myself or my children. I am a compulsive helper. I am almost 40 and my mother still asks me where i am going! While she doesn’t bat an eye at my sister. I love everyone in the world (platonically and no one cares.no one really gives a damn!
I was thrilled to receive
your email. i even began filling out your questionnaire but when you began to ask for my ss# and other very personal info, even with your best intentions I would not… I paused. While I appreciate your willingness to assist me I cannot just give out this info. If errors come my way in life, I try not to let it happen because I was a part of it. I visited your web and if there is a way for you to do this without that information. I am for it otherwise thanks but not at the expense of giving out that info.
Man, it seems like everything that can go wrong in your life did! Sometimes when everything in the world is falling on your head, you have to trust that the universe or God, is trying to tell you something. It may be trying to teach you something or force you out of a situation that is bad for you. You need to try to clear your head and get into a space where you can just quietly listen and hear what it is that is trying so hard to be communicated to you. Sometimes, people need to be brought down so low and humbled to be able to clear their vision and help them to see what they need to see. Hang in there!
hi puff destiny
i got your post on my site and was wondering how everything is going for you?
My son was kicked out of school today. Although my management company has finally come to make necessary repairs, the management company decided to seal the existing mold presence in the apt. This means that the thing that forces us to become ill in my apartment is still there and will be after the work is completed.Meaning we cannot return to the apartment. I almost began to have hope today.
Can you call the board of health?
why was your son kicked out of school?
All i can say is keep trying and remain positive a lot of the misfortunine we recieve we bring on ourselves keep focused and stay carm dont try to deal with the whole bundle in one go break it down and make things easier for your self its about you now for a while you need to get you right before you can deal with everyone else.
Say this prayer 9 times a day for 9 days-may the sacred heart of jesus be adored,glorified,loved and preserved throughout the world now and forever,sacred heart of jesus pray for us ,saint jude helper of hopeless pray for us.. it works everytime..god bless and let me know on the ninth or tenth day the difference it made ..i promise it wont fail,,open your heart ,your mind and of course your tears and youll feel him. start today and dont miss a night..
That sounds like a nightmare.
It reminds me of that episode of friends when Rachel laments her love life and Fibi who is heavily pregnant says “This reminds me of the time I was homeless and had no money for food.” Rachel replies “How is this like that” Fibi: “Well no not really, see, that was a real problem and yours is just a bunch of teenage crap that no-one cares about.”
I wish I could reach out to people like you do, Puffy.
My problem is my sense of self worth and my lack of meaningful interaction with others. You should have none of this.
At the end of the day, if it all goes tits up, at least you can look back and say ‘I tried my best, and I can be proud of who I am, I didn’t compromise myself, I’ve touched and helped many people when most people couldn’t care less.’
That probably doesn’t help, apologies.
I’m a single parent of 3 kids.when things start getting crazy and I try to deal with everything by myself I get to the point to where I’m fixing to break down .I get calm and ask God to help me take care of all of it I can’t do it .Like at Christmas I was broke I ask God to help me few days later I got something In mail from HR Block to where I could get income tax early My car Insurance was to high got something In the mail I called the number got a quote it was $50 cheaper.Im really bad about doing everything by myself I dont want any help well Ive tried to get help but its always the same answer YOU MAKE TOO MUCH MONEY!!!!! BUT I BARELY CAN FOOD HALF THE TIME!!!!! Just sit down get calm and ask God to help you, tell him to take care of it he wants to hes waiting on you to ask him .I still have a habit of doing it all then I get mad and upset to the point of crazy and no return then i talk to God and i tell him im sorry Help me.He does.Well good luck.
Run to the bookstore and buy a book called “The Secret” It changed my life in one week!!! Promise you will do it! Please update me after you read it!!!!
kenten face! i need an advice from you the subject bulling! know i work with kid.s or student,s for 23year,s and i,m justwondering what to say if a student come,s and say can you help me the q is what should i do/
KITTEN FACE, i need an advice from you the subject bulling! know i work with kid.s or student,s for 23year,s and i,m justwondering what to say if a student come,s and say can you help me the q is what should i do/
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