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hi, i dont know

she dosent tell me much, iv told her that she can tell me anything and she said “i know” but then just yesterday her friends told me that she wants me to open up more, so i asked her if she wants me to open up more and she said “yes, i would like you to open up more” and i dont know why she dident tell me herself, she dident tell her friends to tell me, and now im worried that she hasent told me more, and i cant change if she dosent tell me whats wrong, can anyone help me???

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

start with telling her little things? like what you like, hate, get annoyed by, have a soft spot for? then ask her questions, anything you want to know about her? if you show an interest in want to find out about her, shes open up more.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

ok, thank you:) i will try that:D

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Richard Cor de Lyon online Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

sounds to me like SHE needs to open up more.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 73 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Spend more time with her and ask a lot of questions.

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

How to Get a Girl to Open up to You when You’re a Guy

Do you ever need a girl to open up when you are a guy? Here are the steps.

Steps

1. Ask her. A lot of girls think that it shows you care when you ask about them.

2. Don’t pressure her. If you do, Then she will not tell you anything.

3. Tell her more about you. The more they know about you the more they will trust you and thus she will tell you more about herself.

4. Be patient, you have to move slowly so that you don’t come on too strong.

5. Don’t be a jerk, no one likes it when you act mean, especially girls. They find it unattractive, and will not like it especially if you bully or tease others.

6. Be nice to her and tell her you just want her to open up a tad bit more. Honesty is very important in a relationship establishing this is a big bonus.

Tips

* Do not keep asking.

* Tell her you care about establishing a good relationship.

* Don’t ask really personal questions. i.e. “Are you a virgin?”

* Take it slow. Going too fast will never help you.

* Be honest.

Warnings

* Do not go through her personal belongings.

* NEVER bring up PMS (Actually from a female perspective… PMS stops being a taboo after middle school… Just be nice about it… a kind of mixture of joke and sympathy could make her see you understand what she was/is going through)

* Never say anything about her. Ever.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

what do you mean by slowly enzactly???

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Anonymous #
1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

what do you mean when you say “Be patient, you have to move slowly so that you don’t come on too strong.”???

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Take your time.

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grantZ.O. offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 39 minutes after post)

ok, thank you:)

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