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I want to marry my boyfriend.

We’re too young, way too young. But we’ve been together for 4 years. I think it’s emotionally impossible for me to be attracted to anyone but him. He said maybe when we’re 18 but we both think it’d be best to wait until after college. I’m falling too deep! is talking about marriage unhealthy? Is it even possible for someone to wait that long?

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

yes, i’m going on 4 years and i’m 26!! i don’t know how old you are but if you’re smart enough to know you’re too young that’s definitely a sign it’s not the right time. personally i think marriage is convenient on paper before anything else so that’s all nice and good, but there’s no reason why you still can’t stay together or why you ‘must’ get married. i think waiting ’till 18 and after college if you decide to do so is a smart move. he might be your life for now but you don’t know what the future might bring. you might find out things you didn’t know and/or it might make your relationship even stronger than it is. good luck!

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 7 minutes after post)

marriage imposes a hole group of stresses which maybe are not the best
if you are about to go into collage.
Collage is hard.

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