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Tell him the truth. And make him stand up for you. If he refuses, leave him and find someone who respects you more.

He probably can’t do both. If she really doesn’t like you, and refuses to treat you with respect, he will probably have to choose.

She’s jealous. She wants to be with him. He says he wants to be with you, but wants to keep her around, too.

He needs to tell her flat-out that he won’t be with her no matter what she says, and that he won’t tolerate her bad-mouthing you. If he won’t do that, then you need to let him go so he and poisonous pal can go work on someone else.

Then just ignore her. Treat her like something the cat dragged in. Don’t talk to her. Don’t acknowledge her. Don’t call him with he’s with her. Don’t spend time as a threesome. Force him (quietly) to keep reinforcing his choice. Eventually she’ll meet someone else.

Then really ignore her. She shows up somewhere, suggest to your boyfriend that he call her boyfriend.

You need to not let her get in the way. Do what you need to do; take care of yourself, and don’t let anything she does mess up your plans or your day. And tell him that.

let your bf know about how you fell and ignore her.