sex help: How do i go on a first date with someone i really like but im not sexualy attracted to them?

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How do i go on a first date with someone i really like but im not sexualy attracted to them?

I really like this guy we have an amazing time together when were with friends, but im not physicalt attracted to him just emotionaly.
Stiles.

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Grim_Hardcastle 21 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Plain and simple. Just ask him.

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Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

are you a girl or a guy? just curious, but overall I agree with Grim… just ask.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

maybe the other form of attraction will form once you get to know him a little better

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

If you are considering going on a date with him because you see him as boyfriend material why bother if you are not in any way sexually attracted to him? It is only going to end in tears… if it is a date as friends then you ask him out as a friend like you would any other guy…. But if he thinks he is in with a chance romantically and you’ve already decided you are not attracted to him in that way you have to tell him from the start it is not going to lead to anything

linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

Don’t lead a guy on if you’re not attracted to him.

The odds are he’s a nice guy who buys affection with favours, gifts and compliments, a shoulder to cry on, an understanding guy who helps out.

Women are biologically attracted to planners, risk-takers, jokers, doers. This guy can be all of those things if he frees himself up to be… but you don’t start a relationship by hoping someone will change.

Read “Mars and Venus on a date” by John Gray.

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Tictactomm 2 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Don’t call it a date.

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littlenick 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Call it a day out seeing the sights.

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Tictactomm 2 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 38 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Call it a day out seeing the sights.

Yes! You’re hanging out, not hooking up. Be cool. Even bring a friend.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

I don’t know how old you are but I have seen the strongest marriages form out of friends who became lovers. Physical appearances are not everything, attraction plays a role but you may find yourself crazy in love with him. Take it slow- don’t lead him on and don’t play games. Leave it as friends hanging out and see where it naturally goes. Best of luck to you!

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