Relationships help: There’s this guy that was in one of my classes last semester that I think is very attractive.

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There’s this guy that was in one of my classes last semester that I think is very attractive.

He looks very reserved and to himself. I saw him a couple of days ago and I was thinking if it would be horrible if I were to approach him? I’m very shy and I never approach a guy and let alone ask him out on a date! lol but I don’t know if I should and if I do what should I say? I don’t want to seem needy or agressive. Keep in mind we never talked but once last semester which was in may lol any suggestions?

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littlenick 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

How about going to up to him and saying “Hey, I remember you from last semester! What was your name again?” And take it from there and introduce yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Go for it!

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littlenick 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Don’t make more complicated than it should be.

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Gynan Tonix 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

yes. go talk to him.

say, ‘hi :) remember me? i’m X, i was in one of your classes last semester?’ - smile - regardless of the answer : ’so, want to go for a coffee or something?’ and see where that takes you…

good luck. enjoy. be safe.

Dr. Ralph 70 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Yeah find out stuff about him from your friends so you can steer the conversation towards his interests. Compliment him on his looks and whatever it is you like about him and always be where he is and you really don’t have to ask him out. You can make it so obvious you want to go out with him he will ask you. FLIRT! Girls have been doing it forever…. guys just think they are in charge.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

I’ll try to keep calm! And you’re right I shouldn’t make it a big deal, what’s the worst thing that can happen? Rejection! lol I’ll try my best and not stumble over my words ha

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k.concepcio #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I’m in college and I have no one that knows him. Lol

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littlenick 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Breathe.

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Dr. Ralph 70 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

You must see him somewhere all the time, set a trap! Be where you know he will be at a specific time and dress up really sexy and tell him you want to talk to him alone. Then throw a curve ball and ask him to get together to study. Play innocent.

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