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I can’t stop liking this guy, what should i do?
its sort of a long story, but please read it :[
so i’ve known this guy for years, and we were friends for a long long time. three years ago i started liking him, and it just grew and grew as i got to know him better and we grew up. i was never his BEST girl friend, but i ended up being his sort of music-buddy (and he LOVES music). mostly we’d just joke around or talk about normal stuff, but we ended up having a lot of deep conversations where we told each other our secrets and our deepest feelings. all that just made me like him more.
he’s never liked me back, and i know this because last year i just gave up and told him how i felt, thinking it would help me get over him. it didn’t, and he told me he didn’t feel the same way. we stayed friends, but grew apart (partly because he became antisocial to everyone, partly because i stopped talking to him as much trying to stop liking him). i didn’t talk to him at ALL this summer, but now that school’s back i can feel my crush on him coming back.
i REALLY don’t want to like him anymore, it completely ate up three years of my life i’m not getting back. he’s never going to like me, and we’d probably be horrible for eachother. we’re not even friends anymore really because our friendship died over the summer when we didn’t talk!
but i’m still so jealous when he talks to other girls, and i still think about him a lot. i dont like him as much as i did, but it’s not gone. what do i do??
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