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There is this guy I have known for 4 years.

Last year he started looking at me. He just looks and then when I look up we look each other in the eye until one of us looks away. Also he kinda acts like he likes me. He gives me hugs and things like that. Even his friend told my friend that he likes me. I dont know what to do. He has a girlfriend but acts like he wants to go out with me. What can I do?

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littlenick 154 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

He has a girlfriend. What can you do? Does he want to cheat on his girlfriend with you? Would you put yourself in that position? Why are you even asking? Sounds like you’re considering playing the second fiddle to his girlfriend.

Leave it alone. Don’t cause trouble and find your own boyfriend.

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bubble.gumgur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Well he has asked me out. I said idk, cuz he was going out with somebody else. He probably would break up with his gf if he found out i likes him or somthing. I dont want him to cheat on his gf.

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

how good of a boyfriend is he gonna be if he asks out girls while he still has a girlfriend?

how well do you know him, too? it sounds like you just have seen him around sometimes, or are you friends with him?

littlenick 154 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

The guy sounds like a players and he wants to play you!

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bubble.gumgur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Im really good friends with him. Actullay the next day i found out his gf had broken up with him the day he asked me. I guess i forgot that. And i dont think he is actually going out with the girl, because they sure dont act like it. So idk.

littlenick 154 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

And if you get him on the rebound it’s going to be even worse. Don’t act desperate or he will treat you like you are. If you start going out with him right away, if it’s true that they broke up, his ex will start saying that you like left overs and will have a good laugh at your expense with her friends.

Leave it alone for a while.

How old are you?

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bubble.gumgur 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Ok. I think if he wants to go out with me, he can just ask me. I wont say yea right away, i will wait awhile.

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