me n my boyfriend were at a party n he had 13 drinks (beer and other stuff he mixed) n got really drunk .

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me n my boyfriend were at a party n he had 13 drinks (beer and other stuff he mixed) n got really drunk .

he started tryin to hit his head against a wall n saying he wanted to die and that hs life was sobad he didnt want to live anymore which was jsut scary to watch and listen to, so i leaned forward n stopped him from hitting his head against the wall n he just launched at me and punched me in the stomach

n i love him dearly and i know it was coz of the alcohol as he is normally a kind nice person but im freaked by it still even though its been 2 weeks. And like after he did it, over the next few days he was more concerned about wat ppl wud think bout him then how i felt.

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Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

You are fooling yourself by saying, “it’s just the alcohol”… it not. My advise is to stay away from this guy. Someone that drinks so very much is trying to “drown” something (clearly from what he was saying), and alcohol does not make someone violent. Alcohol merely makes it easier for a violent person to be violent.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

but we r bth young… he jst turned 17 n im 16

Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

So… most of your core values have already been defined and right now you both are trying to figure out right from wrong, based on those core values (values you might not even fully recognize). The abuse of alcohol or drugs is not a symptom of youth, it’s a symptom of something much deeper. So, the guy you love is carrying alot of baggage, for him to say he wants to kill himself. If you want to help him carry that baggage that is up to you - get used to getting hit though.

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JuzMe 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

It sounds like he may have mixed alcohol and pills or something to make him flip like that. Do you know if he took a trip ?

Pills and trips effect everyone in different ways. What might be tolerated well by one person, may give the total opposite effect for another, depending on body weight, age, how much alcohol they’ve already consumed and the frame of mind they were in prior to consuming it.

Alcohol is also a depressant, or I guess other wise known as a downer, not an upper like speed etc. Alcohol can make people bad mooded, but generally this happens each time they drink. If this is the first time you’ve noticed this behaviour in him, and it’s not how he normally reacts while drinking, there is a chance he has taken something.

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