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My mom had open heart sergerie and then lost her legs and fingers when I was in the 3 rd grade.

I never knew my dad or had a father figure in my life. I hade to take on many responsibilitys at that young age because of the lack of knowledge of my mother. She passed away four monthes after my 18th birthday and I was kicked to the streets and forced to work a dead end job to put a roof over my head and food in my stomic or be homeless. I accumelated some debt (about 4000) and I have about the same needed to be done in dental work. I have not seen a doctor in 10 years and think I have symptoms of skin cancer. I ve had this debt for about 8 years now. I just left my appartment two months ago and planned to sleep on the train to pay them off faster but that did not work. (The paying the bills off faster part) Im down right now and feel like walking in front of a bus or jumping off a bridge. I hate how my life has gone especially that I was not at fault for the reason I am in this position. Im not suecidal at all. It discusts me how so much creativity and potential is being wasted right now and theses past years because I am smart. The post tramatic stres…..I wont even go there… The lack of help from anybody (church people friends community) discusts me also and it really feals like theres no hope. I need some help, I need a car. I could make 4x what im making now with a decient, reliable vehicle. I need a place to stay and a need some help with these bills. Can anybody sow a seed or seeds in my life so I dont die prematurly.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Do you have a citizens advise bureu or anything like that where you are? I don’t mean to be harsh but its your spending that gotten yourself into debt so it will be harder for you to find an easy way of help.

All I can say is dont give up, cut spending more and more, cut things you don’t need. Do you have any other family who you could stay with until you get on your feet?

If you are homeless, you could stay in a homeless shelter, you live off the basic but its better than on the street and at least you have a roof over your head whilst your saving. Contact your local police station or council for advice on where to stay.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

there’s no money here.

While we at help.com are really sorry about your situation, I’m not sure anybody here is able to help you.

The only thing I can send you is lots of blessings and good wishes.

If you came here looking for money, sorry there is no money.

We at help.com are so broke we cannot pay attention.

Click these websites, you might find something there:

http://cyberbegging.com/

http://www.modestneeds.org/

http://www.hbaone.com/

And for another job if you want one:

http://jobs.com/

And who knows, with the law of averages if you go to enough websites, you’re bound to find a benefactor who will be willing to part with his money and give it to you.

Good luck to you!

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