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can i tell him to stop?

okay i just found out that one of ny real close friend cuts him self. i am worried bout him cause i use to cut cause of deoression. do i have a right to tell him to stop. even tho i use to cut.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

yes, because you found out how to stop. As a matter of fact, there isn’t a better person to tell him to stop, because you know how!

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

if you dont cut anmore then i think you do. if you tell him and he comes back with a remark like “you used to cut so why cant i?” then say something like “yes i used to cut so that means i know hat you’re getting youself into”. or if doesnt want to stop then just tell him that you’ll be there for him because you know how it is. plus since youve done it you may know how hes feeling when so you may be able to tell when it gets too serious and then you could tell someone who will help him when it does get too serious

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mathfreak offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

i know it is bad now i am scared for him. i love him as a lil bro and dnt want nothing to happen to him. i now what he is going through. wen i saw my friend get killed i started and lost alot of peopkle.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 hours, 16 minutes after post)

I would talk to him about it and tell him your story.

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