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I cannot stand being around my mom.

Whenever im with her, it seems like im super annoyed. I dont know what it is. Right now she has a cold so her voice is even more annoying. Its like a sense of relief when im away from her or she leaves the house.

When she leaves the house at night, which is every night to goto her boyfriends house, shell text and call me, every night, atleast 3-6 times, asking where i am, what im doing, whats going on at the house, or other things like that. EVERY NIGHT. Maybe thats why im so annoyed?

It cant be good for me, cause whenever shes around i feel horrible. what can i do?

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Dragon_Lady 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

How old are you?

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

Why exactly do you hate your mom?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

Im feeling EXACTLY the same - but my mom dosn’t go out. Instead I spent 4 hours out of the house to get away from her just because I feel I might get really mad at her…and I never go out, I was with my brothers friends. I just don’t want to say something I might regret.

jackyybo #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

im 19.

i cant stand my mom because shes way too over protective and nosey.

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (53 minutes after post)

Maybe it’s time you move out, be on your own, and really find out how much it costs to live on your own so maybe you will appreciate her nosyness and wanting to protect you of all the evil things that this world has to offer? The nerve of that woman, wanting to protect you and take care of you!!!!

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jackyybo #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

i literally just turned 19. every 19 year old i know still lives with their parents, where i live right now. Im at my first year in community college.

Id like to have my own place, but part time jobs arnt going to cut making payments.

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tanya287 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

I think unless it’s all about something more serious than it sounds, like when my father used to come home and beat us all up after being out most of the night drinking, including beating my mother and pulling her across the sofa by the hair when she was pregnant (she then lost the baby) maybe you need to get over the sound of her voice and realise she has brought you up in this world witch is not always a nice thing, sorry for sounding so neg but it sounds to me like you need to really think about real problems, and maybe you should just move out

littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

tanya287 wrote:
I think unless it’s all about something more serious than it sounds, like when my father used to come home and beat us all up after being out most of the night drinking, including beating my mother and pulling her across the sofa by the hair when she was pregnant (she then lost the baby) maybe you need to get over the sound of her voice and realise she has brought you up in this world witch is not always a nice thing, sorry for sounding so neg but it sounds to me like you need to really think about real problems, and maybe you should just move out

Ditto! :)

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cfreemantrack 1 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

Try having a talk with her. Lay everything out on the table and have a goal you want to work towards with her. Let her know that you appreciate the care she gives you, but as far as calling you so often… you’re a big kid, you can handle yourself and you will pull her back in when you need help. I noticed that when I moved out.. My mom and I became best friends. Believe me, I argued with my mom and step dad on a daily basis, It was HELL. She just loves you and she knows she is losing grip of you as your older and more mature. hang in there!

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