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I think I’m falling for you…

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So, I havent actually been on this site in a while..but I have a situation that I would like some advice on. About a year and a half ago I met an awesome guy who I can say is now one of my closest friends. For a year, we just talked online, on this site and on the phone…and then we met up, which only made us so much closer. I can finally say that I found someone who actually understands everything I go through..or is there to listen if he doesnt. I’m never being judged, and I feel like I can trust him more than anything. As I stated, he’s my best friend. well, here’s where it gets tricky..

When we met over the summer, it was only for a day b/c of our schedules, and at the end of the night we were saying how we had wished we could reverse time and start the day over because we had so much fun. Same for the next time. Now, he’s moved pretty far away and I just dont know…I really really miss him. I guess, in a way..I’m trying to figure out whether I have deeper feelings for him than I thought :\

In one instance.. i dont want to screw up this awesome friendship because I know it could last a lifetime..but on the other hand, I think I might actually have feelings for him, and might I add..he sort of hints the same way. However, who knows! that could be like me overthinking it or something.

I guess my question is.. should I say something, and let these feelings continue in hopes that things will work out? Or just keep a once in a lifetime friendship as it is? thanks guys (:

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Commander Ikari 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Or you could invite him to this post, and see what will happen.

Or you could invite him to this post, and see what will happen.

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*Kayla* 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

well I sort of posted it anonymously..so I guess I could do that. I mean, my worst fear is ruining an awesome friendship for something to benefit myself. if that makes sense lol

well I sort of posted it anonymously..so I guess I could do that. I mean, my worst fear is ruining an awesome friendship for something to benefit myself. if that makes sense lol

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Commander Ikari 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Too late now.

Too late now.

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