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I have just recently broke up with my girlfriend, and someone who over the last few months has been really close to my heart and life.
The reason for the breakup is that her parents have a rule where she cannot be seeing/dating someone until the age of 18 (shes 16). Surprisingly she set aside that rule and we dated for just over a month. Just recently, she said its best that we stay close friends because she cannot take the fact that she is hiding something like this behind her parents and it is killing her inside. I of course agreed to stay friends, but I have feelings for her and I would really like to be much more than friends. Our relationship went really well, there were no bumps or problems except that only one rule. I guess it’s just Karma coming back and biting me in the hind-parts for it. On the other hand, I’m confused as to how to approach this situation and what to do or say. She says that shes fine with me seeing other people but that’s something I can’t do when I have feelings for her. The night of the breakup she apologized for leading me on which I didn’t really understand why she said that because we had an amazing time together, we were really close all summer and nothing went bad in the relationship. What course of action should I do and what can I possibly do to get back with her if this is even possible. Moving on is a possibility if there is nothing more I could do but at the same time I don’t really want to fully consider that at the moment, even though it could be the only answer.
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