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How do you tell someone you don’t want to be friends with them anymore?

She’s a terrible friend.She can’t keep secrets,she’s judgemental&self centered.I found out shes talking s**t about me.I want to get rid of her but im afraid she’ll screw me over.

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LoneArrival offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I have a “friend” just like that!

Here’s what I’d do, you take her, and be less interested in every conversation, and stop talking to her as much, slowly. And gradually it’ll end all its own.

LA

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Write it on a brick and throw it through her window.

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LoneArrival offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:
Write it on a brick and throw it through her window.

Woah, hey, illegal much?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

LoneArrival wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:
Write it on a brick and throw it through her window.

Woah, hey, illegal much?

Through the open window then, if you want to be lame about it.

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LoneArrival offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:

LoneArrival wrote:
Commander Ikari wrote:
Write it on a brick and throw it through her window.

Woah, hey, illegal much?

Through the open window then, if you want to be lame about it.

Haha, alright

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SpazzySpizzy offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Lol commander.Maybe i’ll skip the window and throw it directly at her head.I’ve actually tried to slowly cut her out but she’s like herpes.She just keeps creeping back up on me.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

I had a friend like that for four years. I got tired of it, so I just ignored her. During the summer she added me on facebook and I denied her as a friend. Then, when school started, if I’d see her in the hallway, I acted like I didn’t see her. I stopped hangin out with her at lunch and I didn’t sit anywhere near her in class. She eventually got the message…But first you might want to tell her whats bothering you and talk it over, but if she continues, try ignoring.

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Hangovercity55 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:

LoneArrival wrote:
Commander Ikari wrote:
Write it on a brick and throw it through her window.

Woah, hey, illegal much?

Through the open window then, if you want to be lame about it.

Yea. my least favourite equation. more legal = less fun

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Hangovercity55 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

I’d say just tell be flat out frank with her. Tell her you don’t wanna be friends anymore and remember, sometimes silence is the best responce.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 189 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

write it on a wet fish and slap her with it. slightly less illegal ;)
srsly though, just tell her. exactly what you did here. that you dont want to be her friend anymore because of what she does and who she is.

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