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hey people,

My friend has been acting weird recently ..

Shes all boring these days!!! (not to sound mean but it’s bothering me!)
And shes into things that she wouldn’t normaly like. For example:
black nail polish ( everytime my nails were painted black, she said it looks boring ), clothes with holes in them, sad poetry, etc..

All them stuff all above are the things i used to like but now im grown out of them but sorta like them in my heart lol.

At lunch times at school she hardly talks! and everytime i talk to other friends she would sneak up behind me and scare me then hug me and start a random conversation and then when the person i was talking to is gone, she goes quiet and awkward again!

Can anyone tell me what to do???
Im getting sick of her and want to move on cause she has other friends and act different around them but has a problem with me!!
I already tried talking to her but she says nothings wrong.

Please help!

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 181 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

just sounds like youre growing apart. it happens.
just start making new friends of your own and youll slowly probably drift apart.

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xXTanakaKurejiXx offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

well that actually happen to me before I had a friend that turn like a ******* and everything she said or do was just mean and even talk about her best friends so i told her “**** it, i’m done with u, i don’t wanna be your friend” After that I irgnore her and it works actually…

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