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Me and my ex boyfriend had a relationship for a year and a half.
In that short space of time, our relationship grew into a beautiful thing, it wasn’t this puppy love stuff. We dealt with terrible situations, went on various holidays, phoned each other at least 4 times a day and were madly madly in love.
Then university came, he started to change when I went away first and when I saw him he was a completely different person. I went to see him on the second time and he slept with me then publicly dumped me in a street.
For a week or so he ignored everything me or my family wrote to him. He was extremely close to my family and was going to attend their wedding in December as best man.
Then one of my friends got through to him, saying how bad I was. At the moment I’m on anti depressants and feel absolutely hollow. He emailed me, and soon we were emailing a lot.
He tells me that he’s changed himself, made new older friends, changed his dress sense, pretty much everything.
We’re meeting up to talk about everything next weekend, and he’s made his intentions clear, he wants us to be close friends, but he doesn’t love me anymore.
I’m in a state of shock, I don’t understand how something so perfect could change so much. Please help me find ways to cope and move on.
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