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Is it ever safe to go back to someone who abused you?


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PollyinLove offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I would say no.

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Help me with: I’m so over feeling like a loser with no friends.
Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Nope. But you’re gonna anyway.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

why would you even want to?

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Help me with: Sooooo I was out running with my hellhound, and bent down to pick up her ball….and BOOMCRACKPOPOUCH went something in my back D’:
Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Because I feel like I just gave up on my marriage and ran away. I feel like I am very unhappy because of the choices I made in the past. I feel like that is the only way to fix it.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

If he abused you, you were right to run away. dont EVER think that was your fault. you didnt deserve it.

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Help me with: Sooooo I was out running with my hellhound, and bent down to pick up her ball….and BOOMCRACKPOPOUCH went something in my back D’:
Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Very true. I guess it’s hard to give up on something that made me so happy. I wish I could of done things differently. Right now I feel like I have given up on everything because of my depression and I just want to be happy again.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

being abused made you happy?

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Help me with: Sooooo I was out running with my hellhound, and bent down to pick up her ball….and BOOMCRACKPOPOUCH went something in my back D’:
Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Does anyone know how to get an avatar to load on here? I keep trying to upload and nothing pops up?

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

yea avatars are broken atm, you cant change it sorry.

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Help me with: Sooooo I was out running with my hellhound, and bent down to pick up her ball….and BOOMCRACKPOPOUCH went something in my back D’:
Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

oh thanks.

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