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I get stared at by black men.

Okay, I really don’t want to be racist here if anyone is black and finds this offensive, but anyway, I am a 15 year old white girl, I have quite light hair, its like light brow or dark blonde, and I live in a neighborhood where there is a lot of chinese asian ect. men and they always stare at me, what is it with black guys liking white girls with fair hair. Again, sorry if anyone finds this offensive.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

hahaha wow

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♥Rαvєr♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 99 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

Its more likely to be that they are staring at you because:

A. You are staring at them.

B. You live in a neighbourhood of asian people and the minority is white there.

I’m not saying they don’t fancy you but its not the likely option in that situation.

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Soph-14-94-8 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
GB | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 54 minutes after post)

:| yeah… i don’t want them to fancy me… freaaaaaky, actually the minority is black/asian people there’s a lot more white people… since I live in england

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♥Rαvєr♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 99 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Oh well in that case its because your in the UK. Everyone who’s a stranger is dam right rude and stares at everyone because they think it makes them look good.

When you get about 60+ all the other 60+ year olds smile at you but until then…

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 32 minutes after post)

they can probably feel the racism vibes leaching off of you, and that is why they are staring.

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Soph-14-94-8 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
GB | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 34 minutes after post)

But they don’t stare in a nasty way, its more of a flirty way :/

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 5 days ago (2 weeks, 6 days after post)

I get stared at and they holla at me as I’m passing by. Like an hour ago I was walking in the gas station and a black guy smiled and said something I hope it was nice, but I just smiled back and said thanks. It should flatter you. A guy will always stare at you no matter what race. That’s mens weakness, women. You should realize that blacks, asians, and any other race but your own are just the same as you. They have the same wants and desires in life that you do. Their skin color has nothing to do with anything.

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mrskatarzyn offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 2 days ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Oh my God!!!!!!!!!!!!Stop putting people in groups! What’s a race anyway?! Men stare at women, big deal, I suppose, you are just discovering….

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 week ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

courtybubble wrote:
they can probably feel the racism vibes leaching off of you, and that is why they are staring.

haha funny i actually agree

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