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My Bestfriends moms 1st year death anniversary is tomorrow and I need ideas!

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Were hanging out because obviously its hard for her… does anyone have any ideas of what we could do… like i wanna think of something great to do for her mom or like something we can do to remeber her mom.. something that might make her feel better?… does anyone know any ideas?

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piinkladiix0 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

Hmm… well what kind of things was her mom into when she was alive? Her hobbies and interests? Any organization she was a part of?

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1 month, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

No organisation that I know of.. she grew beautifull roses infront of her house.. but its fall now so its not like I can do anything with that… she was a stay at home mom cause of her health problems caused by smoking.. I have been tryin to think of something for a while now :S

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classicrock1818 offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

this sounds odd, but if its something that could work SPECIFICALLY with your friend, id say just sit around, maybe drink a little bit, and tell funny stories or happy stories about your guys past, some with some without her mom in it. it may get sad at points, but thats when you tell a really funny story or memory your guys past. it could be the right thing to do, but you need to judge it based off of your friend, whether shes the type of person it would be good for

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Keckers offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Eh.
Buy a bouquet and give a rose to each random stranger you meet, courtesy of you bf’s mum o’course.

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easynames0 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

If you have a run down picture of the two of them together.. than restoring it and re-framing it with like an insignia or some kind of text would be a great gift idea.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Hmm yea those r all good ideas thank you!

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easynames0 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Good luck :)

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classicrock1818 offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

yeah good luck. but justing being there for her shows what a great friend you are :) wed all be better off with more people like you in our lives :)

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