if you’re just starting a relationship with a girl and

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if you’re just starting a relationship with a girl

and there is another girl which you know likes you and you think she’s a cool person, would you leave your current gf to try it out with the other girl? I mean, at this point, you don’t know either very well, so would you? I mean, each girl has different features (looks, personality) but I am afraid that if I base it just on looks, then the personality will come back and bite me later on! What do you think?

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littlenick 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Go for the one with the biggest personality.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

that’s the thing, I don’t who has the biggest personality at this point! Guess I shot the gun to soon! I could just be friends with the other chick and then if it turns out she has the biggest personality, do accordingly?

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Milton Keynes, I6, GB | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

Make sure, if one of them is already your girlfriend, that you’re not just thinking you’re interested in the one that likes you because ‘the grass is greener on the other side’ sort of thing.

I know it’s flattering when someone likes you, but you have to like them too.. And you wouldn’t want to make the wrong decision because someone’s going to end up hurt.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Ex-Penguin wrote:
Make sure, if one of them is already your girlfriend, that you’re not just thinking you’re interested in the one that likes you because ‘the grass is greener on the other side’ sort of thing.

I know it’s flattering when someone likes you, but you have to like them too.. And you wouldn’t want to make the wrong decision because someone’s going to end up hurt.

right, I agree with you completely. And I do like this other girl that likes me, but as far as personality, I don’t know her all that well. From what she has shown me, she’s nice and all, but don’t know much further. That’s why I say it’s pretty much level playing field with either. I don’t know, relationships are so dam2n confusing!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Hmm I’d say you should keep your options available. Take it easy with both. Get to know the other girl more. Like you say you can be friends with her and see where it goes (careful of the ‘friendzone’ though!) ;)

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