Love help: I got drunk and don’t remember the whole night. - Help.com

You forgot to ask if you danced with a lamp shade on your head.

You have very caring friends who took care of you and love you. They made sure you did not do anything stupid, like cheating on your husband. Don’t give it a second thought.

I’ve done that, but I have danced with a lamp shade on my head!

That video was funny! Even I laughed! :)

Let it go!

It’s unlikely you did anything…. if your friends are true friends they would have said something…. However if you really can’t remember then maybe you are blocking what you did because you know it was wrong…. i don’t believe anyone can get so drunk they can’t remember… but then it’s never happened to me so maybe that is why i don’t believe it can.

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It’s unlikely you did anything…. if your friends are true friends they would have said something…. However if you really can’t remember then maybe you are blocking what you did because you know it was wrong…. i don’t believe anyone can get so drunk they can’t remember… but then it’s never happened to me so maybe that is why i don’t believe it can.

It’s called “blackout.” Yes, there are people who get so drunk they end up driving home drunk and don’t even remember how they got home. It’s a common occurrence with people who drink too much.

That happened to me on my birthday this year. I have no idea what happened… I still can’t remember the night to this day. But usually it doesn’t effect me like that at all.

I really don’t know what to say, I mean I doubt you’ve cheated on him. It sounds like you were really drunk and danced with another guy and because you were feeling down this made you feel bad and guilty because you miss him.

Alcohol is a depressant - so if you have anxiety already then alcohol is most likely to make it worse. Most people in your situation either get really hyperactive and exitable or really really upset and depressed. One extreme or the other. So although its not a good thing, it happens to thousands of people.

I know its easier said then done but try and pace yourself next time, drink less or have the odd glass of water throughout the night.

well you should have probly thought about it before hand.. if you thought that it would bother your husband that you got DRUNK at a PARTY with him in ANOTHER state.. then you probly shouldnt have done it.. he might be a bit upset.. i mean if your not sure you didnt cheat on him then how in the heck can he be sure?… you know. but if your friends werent too gone and they said you were fine.. then you were probly fine… for me..i dont like it for my girlfriend to get drunk when im not there at all.. but thats a different subject.. but if you knew it would bother him you probly should have thought twice.. but you should be fine as long as you werent lip locked with the guy you wre talking to lol (it was a joke not meant to scare you!) but i hope all goes well for you and not picking up another drink might be a good thing but that doesn mean you cant have a casual drink every now and then.. just not gettin totally messed up to where you cant remember what happened.

I understand the idea of a “blackout” and know people who swear they can’t remember what they did during a drinking session but i’ve never experienced one…. always thought it was a convienant excuse for people to hide behind when they don’t want to admit they have done something. In my younger days i had drinking sessions that resulted in me being physically sick, have the mother of all hang overs the next day and have left me cringing at my behaviour but i can hand on heart say never had a drinking session that resulted in an memory loss…. But i’ll take everyone’s word for it.

just because you get drunk doesnt mean you would cheat. i think the deeper issue here is that you think youre capable of cheating, not that you got drunk.