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ive been best friends with sammantha for 5 yrs now..i

fell for her the first time i laid eyes on her but never said anything..i asked her out once when i first met her..but she wanted to hang with me a little more first..that shortly went no where..but we became the closest of friends..we know everything about each other..recently tho..i told her how i love her more than a friend when i was outta the states..she felt the same way but had a bf..we talked still but always talked about missing each other and wanting to see us and occasoionally bring up how we loved each other..she evn breaks it off w her bf when i told her i didnt want to be the reason..when i finally get home we hang out..but im not seeing her love for me liek she said she has fpor me..i question her one night..and she says i meant every word i said its just hard cuz im use to being your bestfriend.. but i take it as a getting use to thing..now im about to leave the country again..amd she just tells me she loves me but its different and it didnt turn out like she thought..what do i do?? im in love with her and want her in my life..i only have two days though..please help me..pleasee

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lickapop2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

Well here’s the thing I’m pretty sure she has love for you but she’s not in love with you. I’m in the same situation with my best friend and I’m the one that liked him but I realized that kind of like having a boy as a friend. Sometimes girl’s enjoy having a close friend that’s a boy because you guys are easier to talk to and your honest.But if you really and truly are IN LOVE WITH SAMMANTHA then you have to make the first move treat her like your girlfriend. Flirt with her and all.Be confident and express your feelings. yea I know that it’s sappy but us girls dig that mushy stuff.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

Stop wasting your time. There are 3 billion women on this planet.

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lickapop2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

Don’t listen to linuxya yea there might be 3 billion and counting women on this planet but you’re only in love with one

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (55 minutes after post)

how can i be all flirty with her..i only have 2 days until i get deployed to middle east..and i dont know it hit me hard that she said things are different but meant everything she ever told me..and her texting her “crazy ex” all the time doesnt make me feel too good about myself

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (58 minutes after post)

all of these things that you’ve told me and you wrote in your post go tell her and thank you for fighting for this country be safe though

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