My boyfriend doesn’t trust anyone, and he’s going really crazy.

calhav

My boyfriend doesn’t trust anyone, and he’s going really crazy.

How can I help him?

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lucy_h 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

That’s kind of out of your hands. First, try asking him WHY he doesn’t trust anyone. And if he doesn’t answer cause he “doesn’t trust you,” I’d probably get medical help…when it really interferes with people and their relationships then it’s a big problem.

Or, you could let him grow up?

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littlenick 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Refer him to a psychiatrist.

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whoareoy #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

What’s wrong with him.Tell his parents or something.He may have one of those disorders.

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calhav #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

He doesn’t trust psychiatrists. I kind of know why he doesn’t trust anyone. He doesn’t trust me because I’ve made a lot of mistakes in our relationship. I can be withdrawn and have witheld emotions from him. I’m kind of neurotic myself and have been known to tell small lies to cover for myself or to avoid being critisized. I’ve never cheated on him or anything, but I have acted in ways to try and make him jellous to gain power in the relationship and I have denied negative emotions I’ve had out of fear of causeing problems, which he has then picked up on, or I’ve behaved very passive agressivly at times all of which has led him to say he feels I am the person he trusts the most, but also that he doesn’t trust me at all and he doens’t trust anyone else either. He’s worried people are all trying to manipulate himi and that psychiatry, meditation, anti-depressants etc… are all mechanisms of repression. Then he says every time he acts normal he’s just acting and everything seems fake and he has asked me not to call anyone. I have no idea what to do.

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scoutman75 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

First stop messing with his head,I have never understood why people think they need to gain power over one another,Be up front with him and stop playing games,Then leave him alone he either has a mental or emotional disorder or he is playing games ,I wonder why people need to play mind games Why cant people just love each other and try to make each other happy? Nobody can tell you how to love each other that comes from within and you want to see the other person smile and to succeed in life ,To back them up in the choices they make and to make life easier for each other.

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