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i have fallen in love with my best friends sister, and i really have no clue what to do.

do i try it with the girl or do i just drop it and go like it never happend

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

How old are you?

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buzzyduke offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

that is going to remain un-known do you have any advise?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

If it would make you happy to tell her that you care for her, I say go for it. Do you think she likes you too?

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buzzyduke offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

i know she dose its just that this guy is like my brother and ive been best friends with him since 5th grade

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1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Well, how much do you like her? Generally I would advise people to avoid such situations but if you really like her then go for it.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

So you think he would mind if you hooked up with his sister? If you guys are really best friends and he knows how you are, wouldn’t he like you courting his sister?

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buzzyduke offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

i think im going to just try it and if it dosnt work ill mske it as least weird as i can. thanks

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

If it doesn’t work and you and her don’t hook, it will be awkward from now on with your best friend. It will never be the same again.

So think about your next move very carefully.

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buzzyduke offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

okay thanks.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

Tell the guy first. I have done that and people have done that to me. Some people act really weird if you date their sister and other guys don’t mind. One of my friends in high school asked me if it would be okay if he asked my sister out and I said go for it. What if you take her out and hate it because it is like kissing your friend and then your friend hates you and wants to fight? I would talk to the guy if his friendship is important to you.

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