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my wife of nine and a half years just told me we were

growing apart out of no were we have 6 year old twins thier has been some trama to my wife but i thought we were worknig on it she said she needs to think im trying to work on my self but its hard when all i want is to have my family back

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 60 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

Praying together is what helped my husband and myself.

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1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

if she made up her mind there’s nothing you can do!! just make sure you’re there for the kids, no matter what happens!!

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zeleto6 offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

I can relay,and I feel for you,but if your like me,you focus on your loved ones…
I am not proud of my accompishments,but I struggle everyday to make things
comfortable for my family and loved ones…Friends Too !!!

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sfschneider6 offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

If she has made up her mind ther is nothing you can do.
It is also likely that someone that she works with has gone through some problems and is feeding negative comments.
Do the best you can, take the high road and be the best person you can be. It will be difficult and no easy task for you.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

Marriage counselling is the best step.

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ray48teres offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

if this is happing their is 2 sides to the story.sad for children.but also sad to be pulled away from both parents!everyone makes mistakes if you love her don’t give up what ever god has in store for you it will make you a better man don’t give up god will show you the way believe me.

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