Are we compatible?

Xero*

Are we compatible?

Okay, so recently, I have developed a crush on one of my classmates. It all started about last week, when we asked the teacher if she could move seats next to me because she didn’t understand what was going on in the class. Since then, I have grown more and more fond of her. But the thing is, I don’t think that she’ll ever feel the same way about me. She’s the nice, cute little church girl, and I’m… Well I’m not a bad boy, but I’m not 100% goodie good either, more like 80%. We can connect very easily whenever we talk, and she’s able to get me to do anything with her “puppy dog face.”

*What should I do?*

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Commander Ikari 89 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Go for it. Seriously, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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cfreemantrack 1 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

college class or high school? I say simply go up to her after class and make conversation. And if you’re comfortable to do so the same day, ask her if she’ll let you take her out for a movie or ice cream!

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Xero* 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

That would seem like the logical idea.
But, if it doesn’t end up the way intended, then it could put our friendship in jeopardy.
That has happened to me before.

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Xero* 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

cfreemantrack wrote:
college class or high school? I say simply go up to her after class and make conversation. And if you’re comfortable to do so the same day, ask her if she’ll let you take her out for a movie or ice cream!

High School.
Haha, sounds like a good idea.

Help me with: Moving apart…

cfreemantrack 1 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Okay! since it’s high school and you will be seeing her for a while after if she doesn’t go for it. Drop hints, flirt with her, and if you get a good response off of it, go for it. Or invite her with a group of friends to go bowling or even drive ins!

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Xero* 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

cfreemantrack wrote:
Okay! since it’s high school and you will be seeing her for a while after if she doesn’t go for it. Drop hints, flirt with her, and if you get a good response off of it, go for it. Or invite her with a group of friends to go bowling or even drive ins!

Good idea, I’ll casually flirt/send her hints every now and then.
Drive ins? They still have those?

Help me with: Moving apart…

Xero* edited this post 1 month, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Are we compatible?

Okay, so recently, I have developed a crush on one of my classmates. It all started about last week, when we asked the teacher if she could move seats next to me because she didn’t understand what was going on in the class. Since then, I have grown more and more fond of her. But the thing is, I don’t think that she’ll ever feel the same way about me. She’s the nice, cute little church girl, and I’m… Well I’m not a bad boy, but I’m not 100% goodie good either, more like 80%. We can connect very easily when we talk, and she’s able to get to do anything with her “puppy dog face.”

*What should I do?*

Help me with: Moving apart…

MyNameIS_CharloTTe 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

opposites attract! :)

its okay just ask her out. no problem, long as you like her.

CHURCH GIRLS RULE ANYWAYS!
lol

~CharloTTe
Peace and good luck!
D: | :D

Help me with: Define friendship.

Xero* 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

MyNameIS_CharloTTe wrote:
opposites attract! :)

its okay just ask her out. no problem, long as you like her.

CHURCH GIRLS RULE ANYWAYS!
lol

~CharloTTe
Peace and good luck!
D: | :D

Well of course that’s the best thing to do for my situation, but it’s just the fear of rejection and possibly ruining our friendship that has me in cross roads.

Help me with: Moving apart…

MyNameIS_CharloTTe 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Xero* wrote:

MyNameIS_CharloTTe wrote:
opposites attract! :)

its okay just ask her out. no problem, long as you like her.

CHURCH GIRLS RULE ANYWAYS!
lol

~CharloTTe
Peace and good luck!
D: | :D

Well of course that’s the best thing to do for my situation, but it’s just the fear of rejection and possibly ruining our friendship that has me in cross roads.

don’t let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game!

It is not rejection itself that people fear, it is the possible consequences of rejection. Preparing to accept those consequences and viewing rejection as a learning experience that will bring you closer to success, will not only help you to conquer the fear of rejection, but help you to appreciate rejection itself. Bo Bennett

“I take rejection as someone blowing a bugle in my ear to wake me up and get going, rather than retreat.” -Sylvester Stallone

interpret those quotes in anyway you please :P

~CharloTTe
D: | :D (turn ya frown upside downn!)
lol thats how i always sign out
stuff similar to that 2!

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