I have a problem and this is my story. Last Saturday night, I was bored and decided to go in the chat room in yahoo. So i was just fooling around with everyone and there’s this guy who said, “Who wants to drink?”. So I said, “me me me” but I was kidding when I said that. And he suddenly PMed me. And asked for my ASL so I just simply gave it away and exchanged a little bit of infos. He said he’s still in college and studying in La Salle so i was like my ex went there too and I’m from San Beda. So then on we were having a good conversation and he asked me out again if i want to get some drink but its already 2 in the morning but i said no i dont want to. But for the next 15 mins. We’re like flirting in the room so then I agreed to go out. And after the next 20mins he’s on his way to fetch me. So I thought we’re like going to a bar but then he said he want to go somewhere private and drink and yeah he also confessed when i got in his car that he is actually my schoolmate! And he’s the classmate of my friend’s brother. So i was like shocked but a bit at ease. And then he asked me where i want to go. I said wherever he want so he said he wants to get some beer and go somewhere private. And suddenly we were like circling around the motels area. So I was a bit scared but excited. So moving on, we got a room and talked for a while then suddenly he sat beside me like really really close. As in super close so i was just like shock again and he came really close and suddenly kissed me. I don’t know what to do but since it felt good i kissed back. So we were like making out already and a little longer were already stripping on each others clothes and..we did it. Like twice. He’s my first and im like his 1000000000th girl to do. I don’t really imagined that im going to lose my virginity just like that and i think its a bit my fault too. And the other thing is, this guy already have a girlfriend. What bugs me is that what happened is like a one night stand. But now i want to get close to him because of what happened. I mean I want see him around school for a little chat or maybe still see him around out. I wanted to text him but I’m stopping my self because I don’t want him to think that I’m becoming clingy because of what happened. So do you think i should text him or not? or I’ll just pretend that there’s nothing happened to us. How will i handle the situation? help!
if this guy is cheating on his girlfriend he’ll cheat on you too. This guy is a pig and I say you leave him, and never speak to him again. I understand you like him, but believe me, he’s only acting. And when he goes home to his girlfriend, he’ll act to her too. do NOT stay with this guy!
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1 month, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)
pianoman roxas~~~ wrote: if this guy is cheating on his girlfriend he’ll cheat on you too. This guy is a pig and I say you leave him, and never speak to him again. I understand you like him, but believe me, he’s only acting. And when he goes home to his girlfriend, he’ll act to her too. do NOT stay with this guy!
i guess you’re right. but he’s my first and i want to have him. i dont know, i just think im stupid. but thanks for the advice. i’ll try doing that.
what the jesus hell are you doing meeting random strangers off the internet at 2am??? you were so freakin lucky he was familier, do you KNOW how many women have been killed, raped or tortured this way?
courtybubble wrote: what the jesus hell are you doing meeting random strangers off the internet at 2am??? you were so freakin lucky he was familier, do you KNOW how many women have been killed, raped or tortured this way?
no kidding. and NEVER sleep with someone you havent known for at least a few months!! especially at your age! do you realize what you have done? you lost your virginity to this guy! out of your own judgement you have givin something youwill NEVER get back! have some self respect for gods sake!
Anonymous#
1 month, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 52 minutes after post)
carpe_noctem wrote:
courtybubble wrote: what the jesus hell are you doing meeting random strangers off the internet at 2am??? you were so freakin lucky he was familier, do you KNOW how many women have been killed, raped or tortured this way?
no kidding. and NEVER sleep with someone you havent known for at least a few months!! especially at your age! do you realize what you have done? you lost your virginity to this guy! out of your own judgement you have givin something youwill NEVER get back! have some self respect for gods sake!
i know i know i’m really at fault. :( and i know i can never get it back. i’m twenty and its good that i didnt get killed or something but im really upset for what happened. but i still want to get in touch with this guy but we haven’t talked since then because i told him not to text me anymore because i’m scared that her girlfriend will find out what we did. :( i really feel stupid. T_T
youre not stupid for liking him. thats just a natural part of life.
but i honestly dont think you understand the level of danger you put yourself in, you really do need to work on the self respect.
Anonymous#
1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)
courtybubble wrote: youre not stupid for liking him. thats just a natural part of life.
but i honestly dont think you understand the level of danger you put yourself in, you really do need to work on the self respect.
hmm so what do you suggest i should do now courtybubble? really confuse now. :|
Anonymous#
1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)
carpe_noctem wrote:
courtybubble wrote: i think you should try and comprehend the fact that you put your life in danger, and you dont even seem to care about that.
i am in absolute agreement. f**k, if you were in vancouver you’d be dead in a dumpster.
i know, i know. its good that okay now. anyway, its been four days now and i haven’t seen him around school. it kinda bit made me sad. i don’t know why. i think i’m liking him ’cause i can’t stop thinking about him. it’s weird.
Anonymous#
1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)
courtybubble wrote: i think you should try and comprehend the fact that you put your life in danger, and you dont even seem to care about that.
yeah..i’ll never see anyone from online again. it’s really bad. its good that that guy isn’t that bad.
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