Love help: i have been in a relationship for 2years,and i think she loves - Help.com

well if she loves you she would tell u, but y did she go back to his in the first place?
did she sleep with him??

ummmm…. If she told you it means things are probably fine… Might want to talk to her about it… Yeah good luck with that.

do you still love her?
do you want to trust her again?
have you asked her why she told you? (is is pure guilt?)

the fact that she told you means she is willing to fight for the relationship…
truth is very important for women… (even though we sometimes wish we didn’t knew)
so sayd it herself… she loves you… so I think she does…

the question is… why did she go out and test it?
- was it really a test to find out how much she loves you
- did she like the guy but choose for you in the end
- was it a stupid mistake because of alcohol and in a clear moment the first thing she tought about was you
- or was it something completely else…

the hard thing about your problem is… is that is you want to make up your mind and get a clear awnser… you’ve got to do something I think you wont like…
your gonna have to talk about it… alot… to find out the details…
not about what happend…
but about how much she loves you…
how much you love her…
how big a deal this really is for you (the feelings you now have could still be shock)

find out what you need to know to make a decision…
a decision that sets your mind a ease, that you can live with… an maybe most important… a decision that seems fair to you…

once you know where you want to go from here… think about how you want to get there… (forgiving is one way… hate another… vengenge… love… forgetting…or even letting her make up to you in a way so that you’ll know for sure that she loves you and that she is still worth your love)

recap: dont push her away before you know the whats going on…
and find a way that you can live with…
try to make a decision that you think is fair to both of you