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6 months!

its been almost 6 months since my gf left me…its been the worst 6 months ive ever felt…my family and friends have been so supportive and i dunno what id do with out them! and now me and my ex, actully hate each other, its got that bad between us….! but anyway….needless to say…i loved the girl…! and even tho its been 6 months..and she hates me..and i return it….i still wake up every day,feeling like im missing a huge chunk of me…im still so heartbroken…and somedays still cry a little….but like even if she wanted me back…i dont feel like it could fix me…if that makes sense..? its feels like its gone to far…..? but i dont understand why i still feel so **** :(! i kinda feel my heads saying move on…but my heart still kinda holds on if that makes sense….i dunno tho…any ideas? is this a time thing…..? plz say yes because i cant go my hole life feeling like this….

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

a broken hard is hard to fix on your own… good thing you have your family and friend…
but there are small things you can do… (or at least helped in my past)
it starts small… try every day to find one moment…
one pretty moment you can enjoy… in wich you can let go… let everything go and just enjoy the moment…
it can be a bird flying high… or a simple plastic bag beying blown around…

once you can enjoy a moment each day… try to find more moments a day…
try looking at girls and see if one can give you the same kind of feeling you have when you can let go… and just enjoy the moment…
when I found the girl who could do that… the emptyness stopped…

just try to enjoy live… and after that… love is the next step…
everything goes one step at a time…

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I’ve gone through what you are going through now… it’s horrible…. and i feel for you. Six months apart is a long time, long enough to be ready to move on… not necessarily into another relationship…. but focus on the good things you gave to your ex…. wouldn’t you love to do all of that for someone else? Everyone aroun d you has supported you so far so ask them to help you with the last step…. Ask them to help motivate you…. when they see you feeling down they have to get you out and about… A new girlfriend might not be the answer at the moment but having a bit of fun… living life to the full will help.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (13 hours, 44 minutes after post)

both of these replys have helped, thanks! ive been thinking maybe i should try dateing again…but wasnt sure….but i mite try just for fun and see how it goes…! thanks for ur replys, they really have got me thinking a bit better again.

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watermelaneee offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

I’m in the same boat. It’s horrible. It’s one of the worst feelings I’ve ever felt. I’m trying online dating. Its helped me a little because when I’m down and would just like to have some companionship, I can read and respond to messages from other people who are looking for someone else too. It also give you the opportunity to meet new people and just go out on a date and get yourself out of the house. Its obviously not going to just “fix” things… I’m on here reading your post because I feel exactly the same way you do. But its a start and its a way that you can take your life in your own hands and chose to do what you can to move forward.

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3 weeks, 3 days ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

i always thought im to young to go on onnline dateing tho really….?

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