what happened? how was it?
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3 years, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)
If you have experienced a death of a child then my heart goes out to you…. i’ve been there myself and it is horrible.
Believe in Christ , so ur baby can go to heaven with u.
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3 years, 7 months ago (53 minutes after post)
Anonymous wrote:
If you have experienced a death of a child then my heart goes out to you…. i’ve been there myself and it is horrible.
i’ve been there myself and it is horrible.
But i belive that i have an angel that i ever see it beacuse i had not the chance to see it..
but i know that his up there watching me and his father..and praying for us..
Its hard full..really hard full..
but i can deal with it..
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3 years, 7 months ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)
I love it when people who know nothing of the bible start quoting it hoping it can be viewed negatively…. Think you have missed the point of the quotion you’ve used.
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I love it when people who know nothing of the bible start quoting it hoping it can be viewed negatively…. Think you have missed the point of the quotion you’ve used.
I think the point is old testiment god was a bit quik to anger and took to the hobby of baby skeet shooting.
@Original Poster
Sorry for your loss, Hopefully neither mine nor Jess’s comments came across as directed towards you or to make a joke of your loss. Our comments were directed at christianhelper’s comment entirley.
Again sorry if I or Jess might have upset you. I’m very sorry for your loss and believe you have a lot of misslaid anger and frustration, It would be a good idea for you to seek out a counselor to talk about your loss.
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3 years, 7 months ago (3 hours, 7 minutes after post)
I’m not hiding behind Anon…. I choose not to reveal my identity on the internet for personal reasons and as this website allows posters to be anonymous then i don’t think you have any reason to take a pop at my choice.
I don’t see how referring to child killing is helpful to someone who has lost a child… A child was taken…. assumed to be a death even though the poster did not actually say she/he had suffered a bereavement.
Sometimes it is necessary to just show a bit of compassion rather than spout a load of rubbish said to try and inflame a response from other posters.
Anonymous wrote:
Sometimes it is necessary to just show a bit of compassion rather than spout a load of rubbish said to try and inflame a response from other posters.
Your Right but, I think the point she was trying to make was that the below statement was a load of rubbish itself.
ChristianHelper wrote:
I sympathize, but understand that god created this world, but Satan rules it, as it says in the bible, let us not blame god for a random unfortunate occurrence on a wicked planet.
and if you don’t agree with that then fairy fluff, its just one of those good old fashoined differences in belief and idealogy that were just gonna have to get over.
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3 years, 7 months ago (3 hours, 20 minutes after post)
I take on board your comment but i think it is a bit harsh to say that Christianhelper’s statement was a load of rubbish… if that is what he/she believes then fair enough… And i don’t think by saying it he/she was trying to cause any distress to the original poster.
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I take on board your comment but i think it is a bit harsh to say that Christianhelper’s statement was a load of rubbish… if that is what he/she believes then fair enough… And i don’t think by saying it he/she was trying to cause any distress to the original poster.
and nor was Jessica, its a shame but on this site both the religious and non religious cant quite come to an agreement to be civil to each other. Some people ask that you put your faith in god while the others get angry that someones giving a very vulnerable person “false” info or help.
I apolagized on behalf of her for the OP because I know she didnt mean to upset the original poster. anyway sir i have no quaral with your good self. toodles.
http://help.com/post/302225-from-the-…
i can imagine how you feel :(
But remeber you have an angel watching over you..
and some they you are going to have the chance to hold him/her in your hand agian..
PLEASE STOP GOING ON WITH YOUR THOUGHT AND FEELINGS AND CONCENTRATE ON THE POST IT’S SELF.
If the baby died there was a medical reason or a tragic accident. if the baby was an older person then the same applies. I am truely sorry for your loss. if there is a god then shame on him/her/it for causing you pain and suffering. In time I hope you can heal and help others that have suffered a loss like you. surround yourself with loved ones and don’t be ashmed to cry. my thoughts are with you.
from someone with experience two lost babies and no eggs left to try for more.
anita12345678 wrote:
PLEASE STOP GOING ON WITH YOUR THOUGHT AND FEELINGS AND CONCENTRATE ON THE POST IT’S SELF.
If the baby died there was a medical reason or a tragic accident. if the baby was an older person then the same applies. I am truely sorry for your loss. if there is a god then shame on him/her/it for causing you pain and suffering. In time I hope you can heal and help others that have suffered a loss like you. surround yourself with loved ones and don’t be ashmed to cry. my thoughts are with you.
from someone with experience two lost babies and no eggs left to try for more.
Im really sorry..for you…
But are you saying to me or to the post owner?
sorry for im asking..
???
from someone with experience two lost babies and no eggs left to try for more
Sorry its really hard for you :(
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3 years, 7 months ago (3 hours, 48 minutes after post)
I totally agree with you Jessica…. it was an unfortunate occurance unless some crime was committed…. But all christianhelper did was try to offer some comfort…. what he/she thought may be of comfort…. The result….. You quote directly from the bible and start on about child killing…. Come on surely you can see that in circumstances like this that can’t be helpful. If you have a problem with religion playing a part in people’s lives or with people using religion and the bible then start a post about it.
It’s not moaning or whining…. it’s called grief!
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if you have been throught it then i am truely sorry for you and your comments here are very valuable, if you haven’t been throught it but can share a genuine empathy for the person that has then i am pleased that you are here. i wish those with misguided intentions would dissapear from here so that the healing can continue unabated.
i also wish my posts didn’t take so long to appeare as they are being misinterpreted.
God didn’t take the baby from you. Your baby just died, and fortunately for you, you will have the chance to have how many kids you want. I think that a dead baby isn’t a tragedy, but the death of a kid is a tragedy.
Don’t worry, It’s not a big deal, you will forget about it even if NOT soon.
Good Luck
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First of all: very sorry for your loss. It must be horrific to experience something like that.
Second: It’s not “God” who took the baby away from you since there doesn’t exist something like a God or a supreme being. It’s just lies and imaginations. Ways to leech of people who want something to beleive in. Just look at the walth the christian church amassed during the first 1600 years. ******** I say.
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lorenc_8 wrote:
God didn’t take the baby from you. Your baby just died, and fortunately for you, you will have the chance to have how many kids you want. I think that a dead baby isn’t a tragedy, but the death of a kid is a tragedy.
Don’t worry, It’s not a big deal, you will forget about it even if NOT soon.
Good Luck
I think it’s a big deal but you’re quite right with the first bit!
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Well to begin with I think everyone is being rather harsh and are fighting over what they believe in and not thinking of the person who wrote the post. I’ve lost a child and it’s a subject that is always sensitive for you. It doesn’t matter who is to blame for the loss of a baby. The fact is the baby has gone, the baby you would do anything for, the baby you would put yourself on the line for. Your baby isn’t coming back so instead of finding someone or something to blame, you should just jink and cherish the time you had together whether it was being pregnant or actually holding the baby in your arms, and make sure you never forget your baby. Find a place or a thing where you can turn to where you can talk to a Teddy a tree a grave stone even the sky so you can express your emotions and have a cry if need be. I lost my baby when she was born and I think about her everyday and when it’s a hard day and I just need a good cry I go and sit down by the river and look up at the sky and talk to her in my head and out loud it doesn’t matter because she will always here me wherever I am whatever I’m doing I believe my little girl is somewhere looking out for me. And maybe your baby is to you just need to accep what has happened and let your baby live in your hearts and your minds forever and maybe your baby can help you out and through any problems
take care
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Iam very sorry for your loose. and as for what one of the deactivated accounts said weather its a baby or a child u have raised for many years or even just a couple it is still just as horriable and painful emotionally to the parents who lost the child. Again iam very very sorry for your lose.
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