Why did God take my baby from me? - Help.com

If you have experienced a death of a child then my heart goes out to you…. i’ve been there myself and it is horrible.

JaytheSk wrote:
Believe in Christ , so ur baby can go to heaven with u.

For god sakes.

Why always jesus,

Anonymous. whoever you are, i feel for you. Memento mori, may your child rest in peace.

Legion.

Anonymous wrote:
If you have experienced a death of a child then my heart goes out to you…. i’ve been there myself and it is horrible.

i’ve been there myself and it is horrible.

But i belive that i have an angel that i ever see it beacuse i had not the chance to see it..
but i know that his up there watching me and his father..and praying for us..

Its hard full..really hard full..
but i can deal with it..

I sympathize, but understand that god created this world, but Satan rules it, as it says in the bible, let us not blame god for a random unfortunate occurrence on a wicked planet.

ChristianHelper wrote:
I sympathize, but understand that god created this world, but Satan rules it, as it says in the bible, let us not blame god for a random unfortunate occurrence on a wicked planet.

“The glory of Israel will fly away like a bird, for your children will die at birth or perish in the womb or never even be conceived. Even if your children do survive to grow up, I will take them from you. It will be a terrible day when I turn away and leave you alone. I have watched Israel become as beautiful and pleasant as Tyre. But now Israel will bring out her children to be slaughtered.” O LORD, what should I request for your people? I will ask for wombs that don’t give birth and breasts that give no milk. The LORD says, “All their wickedness began at Gilgal; there I began to hate them. I will drive them from my land because of their evil actions. I will love them no more because all their leaders are rebels. The people of Israel are stricken. Their roots are dried up; they will bear no more fruit. And if they give birth, I will slaughter their beloved children.” (Hosea 9:11-16 NLT)

He’s actually pretty much OK with child killing. Orders it quite alot throughout the bible to be honest.

I love it when people who know nothing of the bible start quoting it hoping it can be viewed negatively…. Think you have missed the point of the quotion you’ve used.

Aww, hiding behind anon? How cute!

Anonymous wrote:
I love it when people who know nothing of the bible start quoting it hoping it can be viewed negatively…. Think you have missed the point of the quotion you’ve used.

I think the point is old testiment god was a bit quik to anger and took to the hobby of baby skeet shooting.

@Original Poster

Sorry for your loss, Hopefully neither mine nor Jess’s comments came across as directed towards you or to make a joke of your loss. Our comments were directed at christianhelper’s comment entirley.

Again sorry if I or Jess might have upset you. I’m very sorry for your loss and believe you have a lot of misslaid anger and frustration, It would be a good idea for you to seek out a counselor to talk about your loss.

I’m not hiding behind Anon…. I choose not to reveal my identity on the internet for personal reasons and as this website allows posters to be anonymous then i don’t think you have any reason to take a pop at my choice.

I don’t see how referring to child killing is helpful to someone who has lost a child… A child was taken…. assumed to be a death even though the poster did not actually say she/he had suffered a bereavement.

Sometimes it is necessary to just show a bit of compassion rather than spout a load of rubbish said to try and inflame a response from other posters.

Anonymous wrote:
Sometimes it is necessary to just show a bit of compassion rather than spout a load of rubbish said to try and inflame a response from other posters.

Your Right but, I think the point she was trying to make was that the below statement was a load of rubbish itself.

ChristianHelper wrote:
I sympathize, but understand that god created this world, but Satan rules it, as it says in the bible, let us not blame god for a random unfortunate occurrence on a wicked planet.

and if you don’t agree with that then fairy fluff, its just one of those good old fashoined differences in belief and idealogy that were just gonna have to get over.

I take on board your comment but i think it is a bit harsh to say that Christianhelper’s statement was a load of rubbish… if that is what he/she believes then fair enough… And i don’t think by saying it he/she was trying to cause any distress to the original poster.

Anonymous wrote:
I take on board your comment but i think it is a bit harsh to say that Christianhelper’s statement was a load of rubbish… if that is what he/she believes then fair enough… And i don’t think by saying it he/she was trying to cause any distress to the original poster.

and nor was Jessica, its a shame but on this site both the religious and non religious cant quite come to an agreement to be civil to each other. Some people ask that you put your faith in god while the others get angry that someones giving a very vulnerable person “false” info or help.

I apolagized on behalf of her for the OP because I know she didnt mean to upset the original poster. anyway sir i have no quaral with your good self. toodles.

http://help.com/post/302225-from-the-…

i can imagine how you feel :(
But remeber you have an angel watching over you..
and some they you are going to have the chance to hold him/her in your hand agian..

PLEASE STOP GOING ON WITH YOUR THOUGHT AND FEELINGS AND CONCENTRATE ON THE POST IT’S SELF.

If the baby died there was a medical reason or a tragic accident. if the baby was an older person then the same applies. I am truely sorry for your loss. if there is a god then shame on him/her/it for causing you pain and suffering. In time I hope you can heal and help others that have suffered a loss like you. surround yourself with loved ones and don’t be ashmed to cry. my thoughts are with you.

from someone with experience two lost babies and no eggs left to try for more.

anita12345678 wrote:
PLEASE STOP GOING ON WITH YOUR THOUGHT AND FEELINGS AND CONCENTRATE ON THE POST IT’S SELF.

If the baby died there was a medical reason or a tragic accident. if the baby was an older person then the same applies. I am truely sorry for your loss. if there is a god then shame on him/her/it for causing you pain and suffering. In time I hope you can heal and help others that have suffered a loss like you. surround yourself with loved ones and don’t be ashmed to cry. my thoughts are with you.

from someone with experience two lost babies and no eggs left to try for more.

Im really sorry..for you…
But are you saying to me or to the post owner?
sorry for im asking..
???
from someone with experience two lost babies and no eggs left to try for more
Sorry its really hard for you :(

No one is trying to cause distress to the poster, it’s awful to lose a child, I’ve had two miscarriages, I know how it feels. What gets my goat is when people use religion and the bible, as ChristianHelper did, to justify a random natural occurance.

End of the day, moaning/whining or whatever you want to call it won’t help. Unless someone physically murdered the child nobody took it away, it was just an unfortunate occurance.

I totally agree with you Jessica…. it was an unfortunate occurance unless some crime was committed…. But all christianhelper did was try to offer some comfort…. what he/she thought may be of comfort…. The result….. You quote directly from the bible and start on about child killing…. Come on surely you can see that in circumstances like this that can’t be helpful. If you have a problem with religion playing a part in people’s lives or with people using religion and the bible then start a post about it.

It’s not moaning or whining…. it’s called grief!

The bible does say quite alot about child killing, plenty o’ killing. In fact, they could rename it “That book where lots of people get killed, raped, tortured, and heaps of bad stuff happens” but that would be kind of long winded… I think it is helpful to try and show the poster that God didn’t take their baby, it was just nature.

We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. ~Kenji Miyazawa

if you have been throught it then i am truely sorry for you and your comments here are very valuable, if you haven’t been throught it but can share a genuine empathy for the person that has then i am pleased that you are here. i wish those with misguided intentions would dissapear from here so that the healing can continue unabated.

i also wish my posts didn’t take so long to appeare as they are being misinterpreted.