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1 month, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)
You’ll make excellent daughter in law material…lol.
what do you mean please?can you explane more simple please
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1 month, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)
Sorry i was making light of your situation…. I meant that girlfriends who go onto marry their boyfriends often complain about their in laws… particulary the mothers of the men they marry….so hating your boyfriends family now is actually putting you in good steed for marriage.
What does his family do specifically?
i really hate his mother and his siter and sometimes his father as well..
they dont have a piece of rispect i allready told him i wish that i can take you out of there as soon as possibe sometiems he start crying like a baby and to see a man crying is really bad..
and he really hurt when they do that to him.
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
i really hate his mother and his siter and sometimes his father as well..
they dont have a piece of rispect i allready told him i wish that i can take you out of there as soon as possibe sometiems he start crying like a baby and to see a man crying is really bad..
and he really hurt when they do that to him.
BUT what do they do to him SPECIFICALLY?
Didn’t they come to visit you at the hospital etc. ?? Sorry i’m a member i read that post but i lost my login
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You could go to a counselor or something like that. :)
Aren’t they the ones that came to visit you at the hospital when you were hurt? Maybe you are just hearing his side. They seemed pretty nice to come and visit you.
Cell wrote:
Aren’t they the ones that came to visit you at the hospital when you were hurt? Maybe you are just hearing his side. They seemed pretty nice to come and visit you.
Yes they seem pretty nice..but why they dont love there own son like they love me?
IDon’tEverQuit wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
i really hate his mother and his siter and sometimes his father as well..
they dont have a piece of rispect i allready told him i wish that i can take you out of there as soon as possibe sometiems he start crying like a baby and to see a man crying is really bad..
and he really hurt when they do that to him.
BUT what do they do to him SPECIFICALLY?
I hate my boyfriend family…because they don’t have a piece of respect for him and I’m very angry about them…I have been trying to keep calm from 2 months after I meet him…they are so self fish and they just want to them and if you need something small from them they don’t give it to you…he ask his mother to come with him at hospital and she says: NO I DON’T WANT and when his sister ask her mother to go with her at the supermarket she goes running with her and to his own son she don’t want to go…
Its not fair…when he ask her for something always SAYS NOOO I DON’T WANT and then she start offend him with everything and sometimes even with me offend him….
And last time I eat there and she start shouting with him because I eat there and then he told her she only eat here one in a while and my sisters boyfriend eat always here…why you don’t say nothing for him?? And she tells him it’s not your business and then I just go at his room and stay there and wait for him. After he come he told me that she don’t want me to eat or drink there… And I told him no worry I will not eat or drink here I will buy from out side…
And I’m really angry…my boyfriend every week give her money Not a few many money to clean him the bedroom to make his bed and to wash him the clothes and she just wash him the clothes only because the bed she don’t do it and she don’t clean him the bedroom and I clean him the bedroom one time in a week…when I be there I will clean it a lot…because it will be a lot dirty…I do the clothes the dirty at the bathroom and the goods at the wardrobe because when she wash them she put them to him on floor. And I really hate it…she’s really dirty…I know why I can’t accept that thing that she dirty because I’m very Cleaning woman that’s why, I wash floor 3 times a week I clean home all days… so you can imagine. How I feel when I see my boyfriend living in a dirty home…sometimes I cry for my own home…I wish that I can take him out of there as soon as possible so he will find always clean and will find always perfect. And will find always someone at home waiting for him from work and will find his dinner ready on the table when he finished from work….and she don’t even cook for him sometimes…sleep all the day and she don’t do nothing…every time I try to cell her at home all the time busy the phone and the phone he pay it my boyfriend and when he try to call me from there to my home she start talking and say why are you going to phone her? And she told him that he every time on the phone with me and it’s not true because he will be at home in day…
[I’m really hurting and really angry at the same time… because I know how his feeling because he opens his heart with me…]
Hope you can understand me and sorry for my English.
wow, she doesn’t sound the greatest. couldn’t you both move into an apartment for now?
IDon’tEverQuit wrote:
wow, she doesn’t sound the greatest. couldn’t you both move into an apartment for now?
=/ we wish but right now we are paying the car loan but about 2-3 months more we will cut the car loan..beacuse we dont have alot alot..
and then we start thinking about that and he move into it and i go always there cooking for him wash clothes and cleaning home..
How old are you? Just curious cause you said HE will move into it not WE will.
IDon’tEverQuit wrote:
How old are you? Just curious cause you said HE will move into it not WE will.
Im still 16 on january i will be 17 dear..
and his 19 in this november.
so i cant move out right now i have to wait..
but i will go at home always if we will have a house.
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
IDon’tEverQuit wrote:
How old are you? Just curious cause you said HE will move into it not WE will.
Im still 16 on january i will be 17 dear..
and his 19 in this november.
so i cant move out right now i have to wait..
but i will go at home always if we will have a house.
You’re very young……how long have you been together?
2 years in January,he was my birthday present..i mean we meet at my birtday and we start our relas…
i know that im young but i dont mind..
i have my family problems as well..
and he have his family problems as well..i dont care whaT his family say beacuse they say that they dont want him to married..but he want to married as we both want that..thats what are we going to do,but first we wish to earn alot money so arrange our home and first buy one or rent one and then we move into and then after abit we married.
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
2 years in January,he was my birthday present..i mean we meet at my birtday and we start our relas…
i know that im young but i dont mind..
i have my family problems as well..
and he have his family problems as well..i dont care whaT his family say beacuse they say that they dont want him to married..but he want to married as we both want that..thats what are we going to do,but first we wish to earn alot money so arrange our home and first buy one or rent one and then we move into and then after abit we married.
I understand. I’ve been with my fiance for almost 8 years. We started going out when I was 16 and he was 17 :D and we’re still going strong :D
when i meet him it was 3 days after my 15 birthday..and he was 17 xD
and we still going stong as well..
i hope that my angry will calm down :(
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
when i meet him it was 3 days after my 15 birthday..and he was 17 xD
and we still going stong as well..
i hope that my angry will calm down :(
That’s good :) Just realize that you can’t change his family. All you can do is be nice and support your boyfriend.
IDon’tEverQuit wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
when i meet him it was 3 days after my 15 birthday..and he was 17 xD
and we still going stong as well..
i hope that my angry will calm down :(
That’s good :) Just realize that you can’t change his family. All you can do is be nice and support your boyfriend.
i support him all the time. even when he shout with me beacuse he will be angry about his work..i will be always be there biside him to be save when he will going to fall i will give him my hand to help him not fal.
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
IDon’tEverQuit wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
when i meet him it was 3 days after my 15 birthday..and he was 17 xD
and we still going stong as well..
i hope that my angry will calm down :(
That’s good :) Just realize that you can’t change his family. All you can do is be nice and support your boyfriend.
i support him all the time. even when he shout with me beacuse he will be angry about his work..i will be always be there biside him to be save when he will going to fall i will give him my hand to help him not fal.
Good for you :)
IDon’tEverQuit wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
IDon’tEverQuit wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
when i meet him it was 3 days after my 15 birthday..and he was 17 xD
and we still going stong as well..
i hope that my angry will calm down :(
That’s good :) Just realize that you can’t change his family. All you can do is be nice and support your boyfriend.
i support him all the time. even when he shout with me beacuse he will be angry about his work..i will be always be there biside him to be save when he will going to fall i will give him my hand to help him not fal.
Good for you :)
Thanks dear.
and thanks for advice too.
Well this sounds like both of you have a great relationship together.which is all that should truly matter i know you can protest and tell them how you feel but that might hav 2outcome and trust me something like that happened in my family they either reject you or listen to what you had to say.
I would say for you to bid your time and get the heck out.visit them on occasions and hollidays you cant change they way people see or do things most of the time just live with it for the next 3months or just tell your boyfriend to learn to give them a dose of their own medicine and say i dont think soo.or NO sorry no can do
Petite ange wrote:
Well this sounds like both of you have a great relationship together.which is all that should truly matter i know you can protest and tell them how you feel but that might hav 2outcome and trust me something like that happened in my family they either reject you or listen to what you had to say.
I would say for you to bid your time and get the heck out.visit them on occasions and hollidays you cant change they way people see or do things most of the time just live with it for the next 3months or just tell your boyfriend to learn to give them a dose of their own medicine and say i dont think soo.or NO sorry no can do
Thanks for your advice..we will pay the car loan and then we buy or rent a home..
tonight we are going to the hospital beacuse his not well..
and i ask her mother to come with us..
do you know what she says:
She told me
I CANT IM TIRED,I WANT TO WATCH THE TV SERIAL,AND THE BUS MAKE MY BACK PAIN
by the way we was going with the car not with the BUS.
but if you told her your going to pay her or your going to buy her something she will come running..
its reallu hurt when i listen to her say that to her own son.
Ok listen and understand that you cant change how people percive one another but You can change your reaction to them. Y should you care if just think in a few months you might not even hav to deal with her.
I know it hurts because its family but as they say you can choose who u live with, marry, or become friends with. but never your family unfortunately for some. but heck get used to them being the way they are if you keep thinking like that you will hav an eternal head ache your whole marriage and that might result to an unhappy marriage
Petite ange wrote:
Ok listen and understand that you cant change how people percive one another but You can change your reaction to them. Y should you care if just think in a few months you might not even hav to deal with her.
I know it hurts because its family but as they say you can choose who u live with, marry, or become friends with. but never your family unfortunately for some. but heck get used to them being the way they are if you keep thinking like that you will hav an eternal head ache your whole marriage and that might result to an unhappy marriage
i dont want unhappy marriage
we both decide that we go living far from his parents and far from my parents its better for us..
im not going to care..if he look at us like that we look like that back..i know its her son but she dont walk good with him :(
Again Why should you give a dam.yes it hurts to see that but well unless your willing to take a stand against her all you can do is politely listen to her crap and get used to it. that is what i see. hope you dont ever let her mingle in ur relationship cause u will be taking her boy away and she wont be able to walk all over him so beware lol sounds just daunting “beware” lol
Anonymous
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1 month, 1 week ago (19 hours, 28 minutes after post)
Just going through your post i get the sense that you have been raised a particular way by your parents and your partner has been raised differently. He’s 19 and old enough to stand up to his parents himself and certainly should not need you to fight his battles for him. If he is unhappy then it is up to him to discuss the matter with his parents. If his family sense the hostility you have towards them then that will only make a bad situation worse for your partner…. If they make you so uncomfortable when you visit him and are so unwelcoming then stay away from them… Get him to visit you at your home.
juss never blame him because remember..noone can help how their family is because they were born to them not able to pick. Let him deal with it never dip into family affairs because that will only allow distance to grow between you two. However start trying to grow to be able to ignore it because it’s seriously worse to not get along with ur in-laws than juss ur boyfriends family.
It sounds that she is a moocher. (his mother). My fathers mother is alot like that… do as I say not as I do… I do nothing for you but you do all for me. It happens. There are people in the world like that. All you can do is put up with them until you can get the hell away from them!
Young relationships just be forewarned some do last, some do not. I met someone when I was 17 he was 15 almost 16 we dated for about 4 years, we had plans for marriage kids and the whole thing but once we lived together for a couple years it seemed that things just didn’t work out because we were too young really. I used to blame it on everything then realized both of our maturity still lacked. Him and I are still best friends to this day and love each other very much we just know we can’t be together since we sorta screwed it up from the get-go.
So good luck with that!!
Oh yeah and you can pick your soulmate and you can pick your friends… but you can’t pick your family you sorta get screwed on that deal so as princess says dont blame him.
As long as there are nice families there are also horrible ones, its life, all you can do is be there for him, and he needs to get on his on feet as soon as possible, it never benefited anyone to be in a negative environment, Good Luck dear.
Anonymous wrote:
Sorry i was making light of your situation…. I meant that girlfriends who go onto marry their boyfriends often complain about their in laws… particulary the mothers of the men they marry….so hating your boyfriends family now is actually putting you in good steed for marriage.
As opposed to… women who marry men they don’t know?
Way to post up a completely nonsensical response… to a completely nonsensical post.
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Anonymous
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1 month, 1 week ago (21 hours, 44 minutes after post)
Oh dear another pathetic troll.
i thought you said your boyfriends family was really nice when they visited YOU in hospital for your little stitches escapade?
some times they are alot nice but some times they are not..
his mother is the most one..she want for her but dont give abit for others..
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