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why dont guys like me?

i feel so old like i should atleast be in a committed relationship right now and nothing seems to ever go right in my life. im 23 and still live at home with my parents. cant afford college. couldnt get a job in 4ever and when i finally got one it was hell and the managers treated everyone like **** and it was embarrasing to all the customers i felt so bad for them hearing the boss yelling at everyone. i about wanted to walk out in the middle of the shift but couldnt becuz i need this $3-5 an hr job for $$!!

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pinkyswear offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

I’m confused. Are you asking about why guys don’t date you, or why they didn’t all fall to your feet swoonign when you went into your job?

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glamourchick offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

i just dont get noticed by any guys anywhere i go

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

You only make $3 to 5 dollars an hour? Wow! What country are you in?

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

It terms of average development you’re not missing anything. People are staying home longer… even into their late twenties early thirties. People are definitely not having committed relationships until their thirties and forties. There’s been a slip in all of these things by a full decade since the 40’s. In the 40’s, twenty something men and women were buying their homes and starting their families. Women were married and pregnant by 25… it’s not that way anymore. Stop stress over what you don’t have and start being grateful for what you do. It can make life a little easier.

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paradisenu offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

hello,
sounds like you are very close to meeting the love of your life. 23 years old isnt old at all…sounds like you need to just focus on making your self happy. get a piece of paper and draw a line down the center on one side put all the qualities you would like in a guy and the other side put the qualities you dont like and then focus on that for a while then put it out your mind give your self a facial take a bath relax take up bellydancing or yoga , let go completely, start reading, its ok you live at home many people your age live at home. take your time and save up while you are still there and not paying bills. be thankful, get into the earth, open your self up to knew possibilities, but most of all find you.love yourself, and when you least expect it he will come.. i promise you , it always works out that way 3 love light,
good luck stay positive

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Cannonball Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Susanville, CA, US | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

oh he’ll pop around when you’re not looking..probably land right in your lap. Just stop stressing and keep yourself open. focus on other things that you have a bit more control over.

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