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help problems with myself or my wife…
..i have a problem that keep bothering me. when i had left town my friends aunty slept with my best friend who i calls my brother……..a couple few times, then they stop callin one another out the blue we hadnt dated yet….when i came back 4 years later she got with me and i didnt want to start a relationship with her knowing that she was me and my best friends other best friends aunty,but she pushed too hard and i didnt want her to feel like i did her wrong but my friend said go ahead and i probably shouldnt of done it. well we stayed together 6 years and got married…but my best friend keep throwing the fact up on the sly that he slept with her, and talks about it to other people who we both are aquainted too, which makes me look like an ***. and when i ask her of events she lied and after 6 years i found out the truth….she might of been really into him which she portrays she wasnt, and uhhh by him….he says she was stalkin him and she says she wasnt, so am i just the rebound to make him jealous… so im urged to sleep with his gurl to get even but i wont stoop so low and 2 i wont cheat on my wife…..but me and my wife keep falling oout about it because now the whole town knows….and i tell her she played herself……she was married to another man when she did this and he had a fit, and disclaimed her and her daughter….not only that she slept with another friend and he had a gurl at the time and he also talks…..but all this was b4 me so i wonder what i should do or how i should feel….sometimes i feel like i should let her go and it would be better but she dont understand and at other times i feel like i wont let other guys friends or not come in between us…..what tripped me out is were all 8 9 years younger than her and she was kind of older when she went through her ornery stage…..i asked her yesterday some quesstions that i expected fast response too to help me with my insecurity and let me know that im the 1…..but she beat around the bush when i compared me to my friend as far as who she felt was the better catch…..my friends a junkie and really about nothing….i by her cars houses and diamonds, both her daughters cars and i feel like i might be a fool….should i let it go and work around it or let her go…..
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