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Im 19, and ive never been in a relationship, people always change their minds about me, and fall inlove with somebody else.

They always ask for stuff, and yet they never give me anything. Im sad, and am depressed. My life has no meaning, cuz i have never had love, and will never have it

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happy_mike offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Bud, you have time and just because you haven’t had a relationship doesnt mean your life has no meaing either.

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Andy Gee offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

I’ll be your long distance girlfriend. You sound lovely.

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jdfhkjdsakj offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

but the chances of something happening that has never happened seems impossible to ever happen, I have no hope left, cuz nothing ever gives me reason to see a better tomorrow…

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jdfhkjdsakj offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Its never going to happen, i dont kno why i continue this, living that is, my life should be good, but i have no friends and everyone uses me

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Andy Gee offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

facebook.com/74gee I’ll be your friend, seriously.

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kforhel offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

Andy Gee wrote:
I’ll be your long distance girlfriend. You sound lovely.

Hay Long distace girlfriend.. Sounds intresting…. m lonely too :)

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Andy Gee offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

facebook me

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calemus offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

easy killer
some one some where is your match
learn to live
get a realy big mutt puppy from the rescue shelter
train it like u would train a child
my dog goes in and out doors opens the car,
i got videos of him helping me stack firewood
train it to pick up it’s toys and put them in a box
get cussions and train the dog to lay on the cussion
theres lots u can do with a good dog
besides
it helps you to get ready to teach and care for children

the reason why i say all this?
i am 31
i havent had a date in about 11 years
although i would rather die right now right here
then be single another day
with God as my witness
i also remember from her destroying me
it is better to live in the tourment of being single
then to live in the hell of being with the wrong person

so i wait
i now have a house
2 vehicles
and am going to school
waiting
for her

so you can learn from my mistakes
dont grab any good looking girl that showes intrest in you
chose an investment
one that matches a strong set of what you believe will make a quality
companion for the rest of your life
just wait
it’s better without the scars
believe me

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jdfhkjdsakj offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

Thank you, but i have scars, and was nearly in the same situation, but where does one ever get home in tomorrow?

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calemus offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

jdfhkjdsakj wrote:
but where does one ever get home in tomorrow?

say wha?

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calemus offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (55 minutes after post)

same scars? i was with her almost 4 years
she killed my baby
she left me for another man
then cam back agine
she ended up listening to her mom instead of me
and therby destroyed our relationship
i was going to marry that woman
i cryed for her for 6 years
six years
i HOPE you aint got scars like that

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kforhel offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour after post)

calemus wrote:
same scars? i was with her almost 4 years
she killed my baby
she left me for another man
then cam back agine
she ended up listening to her mom instead of me
and therby destroyed our relationship
i was going to marry that woman
i cryed for her for 6 years
six years
i HOPE you aint got scars like that

6 yrs……. its a long time……. do us till cry 4 her…. or now atleast you are out of it….

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calemus offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

11 years later
it still hurts once in a while
i even seen her twice
the first time i had an emotional breakdown
the second time was almost as bad
everytime i think i might be surprised by seeing her
my blood pressure drops and i go numb and freez for a second
it’s the same feeling i would get whene a carwreck was coming at me
and there was nothing i could do
but atleast no the nightmares of her are very few
and now i can actualy live
it will be better whene i obtain someone to put all my pent up apreciation twards
it will be worth the wait
someday

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ray48teres offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

you are only 19 you have your whole life to live’never say never.god put someone here just for you! you just haven’t met them yet.when it’s your time you will know it!then you can look back at this and see what you thought was wrong.hang in their they will show up.and when they do i would like to know!

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