Ok so relationship advice, i’ll make it short, please help… - Help.com

Don’t tell your boyfriend. Just next time someone invites over to watch films and you’re going to be by yourselves, try to bring a friend over. When guys and girls invite guys and girls to watch films or whatever and they are going to be alone, guys and girls are usually ready to rock. And you don’t sound like you know the first thing about music.

You knew he liked you….and you enjoyed the attention… freaked out when he tried it on and told him to back off…. but you haven’t really told him to back off have you? Because you still want to be his friend and bask in a bit of that attention he will pay you because he likes you. You’re playing with fire…. You’ll get burnt.

well if you have a good connection with your boyfriend and it would make you feel better to tell somebody about it, then I think you should tell your boyfriend.

It also depends if you plan on hanging out with this person still?

Lol, I use to tell my girlfriend all sorts of stupid stuff that would happen to me because I told her everything though. It wasn’t about guilt or what not. She was just a person we told each other everything about.

xD
Did you just automatically assume he was gay?
Also, music?$

The guy was ready to rock. And she does not know the first thing about music meaning she did not have a clue or at lease seemed not to have a clue as to what the guy really wanted.

He probably already had his little soldier ready to go to war with a helmet on and she hadn’t even thought about joining the army yet but he tried to recruit her right there and then to fight for the cause.

littlenick wrote:
The guy was ready to rock. And she does not know the first thing about music meaning she did not have a clue or at lease seemed not to have a clue as to what the guy really wanted.

He probably already had his little soldier ready to go to war with a helmet on and she hadn’t even thought about joining the army yet but he tried to recruit her right there and then to fight for the cause.

Ohh.
Maaann, metaphors and analogies.

Eww omg nick X[
He’s seriously nice as a friend though, do you think it will always be awkward?
I think he’s going to change class, and he was like my only friend in this class

still wants to be friends… lol $20 says in a couple months this other guys gonna be “rockin”

I think if you talk to him and explain to him that loyalty to your boyfriend is paramount he will understand if he is really your friend.

He might be the type of friend who is ready to catch you once you break up with your boyfriend and are ready to fall…right into his arms! :)

Do you think i should cut him off all together then?
And by not telling my boyfriend im not hiding anything am i?
I was right to say no right? :/

Don’t cut him off. Just try to act like nothing happened. If he is a little bit smart, he will keep his little soldier in check when he’s around you knowing fully well that your cat is not ready to sign up.

You’re not hiding anything from your boyfriend because nothing happened.

And yes you were right to say no.

Aww thanks nick :)
I think i just needed to have my mind put at rest, also im on meds at the moment that are making me feel REALLY out of it so i kinda need people to tell me what to do, i cant get my head around it on my own X[

Anonymous wrote:
Do you think i should cut him off all together then?
And by not telling my boyfriend im not hiding anything am i?
I was right to say no right? :/

Ah gah,woman!
xD
If youu’re having any second thoughts about turning this kid down I have to ask whether or not you actually still feel something for your boyfriend?
Or is this one of those long distance relationships?

Don’t give it a second thought.

Keckers wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Do you think i should cut him off all together then?
And by not telling my boyfriend im not hiding anything am i?
I was right to say no right? :/

Ah gah,woman!
xD
If youu’re having any second thoughts about turning this kid down I have to ask whether or not you actually still feel something for your boyfriend?
Or is this one of those long distance relationships?

No no no! I dont want ANYthing s exual with this guy, only friendship but what im asking is if you guys think that can happen or if i need to just leave him because all he’ll ever want it s ex

Ah, alright then.

i would tell my boyfriend about that. its just me but i would want him to know and let him know that you stopped the guy and have no intentions to be with this kid. and you can still be friends with the guy just set ground rules and if he cant understand that there cant be a relationship then dont worry about him.

heffelfinger wrote:
i would tell my boyfriend about that. its just me but i would want him to know and let him know that you stopped the guy and have no intentions to be with this kid. and you can still be friends with the guy just set ground rules and if he cant understand that there cant be a relationship then dont worry about him.

Yeah, but then she will plant the seed of doubt in her boyfriend. Even if he does not say it, he will ask “why did she go there? What did she think would happen? What is she doing talking to this kid?……” and on and on. And that’s just the lame questions.

Yeah fair point :/

They may be lame questions but they are questions he has the right to ask.

but relationship is based on trust and honesty and if she tells him he will know okay she loves me enough not to hide it. and she doesnt want this guy and loves her boyfriend and they have been together long enough to where they are mature enough to work and talk things out

heffelfinger wrote:
but relationship is based on trust and honesty and if she tells him he will know okay she loves me enough not to hide it. and she doesnt want this guy and loves her boyfriend and they have been together long enough to where they are mature enough to work and talk things out

So if i did tell him how would i go about it?

Don’t tell him.