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I dont want this…

I fell in love with a girl about a year ago we broke 8 months ago tho.. I have never loved anyone like i loved her. Since we broke up i havnt gone one day without thinking bout her… Some times it was every 10 mintues id think about her.. Last week tho i didnt hardly think about her.. Maybe twice a day. But this week i’ve been ill and off college and i dont know if its becuase im ill and alone or whatever but shes all i can think about. I dont want her back i dont love her anymore. I dont just think about her passionately but also sexualy.. the worst part off all is that she’s been sleeping around with lots of guys and it hurts to think shes with them and not me..
What do i do..
Thankyou

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

You put it behind you and you move on. You don’t want her back, you don’t love her…. you’re going through a process we all have to go through to get over a broken heart…. You’re still very young and have plenty of time to experience true love. Hope you feel better soon.

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CA | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

It’s hard to forget about something that was so segnificant in your life. But you must move on. Don’t try to focus on her so hard. Just accept your thoughts of her and take the time you need to collect yourself as an individual and in time you’ll be fully moved on. My last breakup left me thinking of a guy every single day for well over 3-4 months. Even without a single word shared between us I still couldn’t get him off my mind, and at times wandered if I ever would. But in time your mind does forget and you do emotionally heal. You may never fully get over her, but you do deserve to be happy and not let lingering thoughts ruin you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Its human…
We all have something similar happen to us at one point or another…
Thing is time is a good healer and it helps to move on…
BTW, did you have closure, I mean know why you broke up and her feelings about you?
If so…
Your thinking about her because you dont have much else to occupy your mind, it can be someone else or something else!
Just find someone else or something to do to take your mind off her!
And have fun!

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Midvale, UT, US | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Yes move on, she has and is, you have no choice. Find someone that will love you back and see no reason to look elsewhere. Your young and may have to endure this yet again. We all have been there. No way around it, just gotta go through it. Hold your head up and get on with your bad self!

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