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I need serious help!

I’ve been in many relationships, but never one like this. I’ve never loved someone with every fiber of my being! We met in SouthBeach, lived together for 4 months, moved to TN to meet her family for 3 months and now have been living in Daytona Beach for 4 months. We had it all! Real love! But when we moved to Daytona, due to the terrible economy, we couldn’t find work. We usually work in bars and restaurants. So after a while, I allowed her to work at a strip club. She didn’t want to, but did it to keep us afloat. She then got a little distant. after a while she being only 20 years old hooked up with her scumbag manager who is 42 years old. She complained for a bit about our living situation. She wanted to go to school and such as I do. But even though, she slept with this man, I still love her! I know that she is the one! If I could only get help with a better job and somehow make ends meet to provide for her… I’m not a man anymore! I’m thinking crazy! I would do anything to get her back! We still talk, and she tells me that she still loves me! She likes him and all he can offer, but she still thinks of me! I’m lost! please help

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Help me with: if you were offered a plea bargain for 5 years would you fight it with a trial if what you did you believed in
ray48teres offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

sorry but she has entered in to another world!nothing you can do.if you really love her just be there.if her love was like yours she would be their.that kind of job she might think you think less of her.hang in and see what uncover’s

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Help me with: if you were offered a plea bargain for 5 years would you fight it with a trial if what you did you believed in
Helper626 offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 days, 17 hours after post)

I’m sorry for your situation.
My religion says to pray to god and he will save us from the sins of this world and be reborn again and he can give us our hearts desires.
I agree with what was said before BE THERE, no matter how bad things get be there for her. Being a lover is WAY better then being a provider. cause quite frankly being a provider is part of being a lover. Money is not the only way to provide or her, provide her with time spent with her, making her feel special, a shelter that will never crumble.
If you need to get her parents involved and have an intervention about her stripping. It is a easy way out but also down a darn path of life as you are seeing. She needs her knight and shining armor to get her out of that dark situation. You may need to talk to someone that can help, like her or your parents. Perhaps a professional if needed.
Another option, i know the economy absolutely sucks, but move again. It will be hard however if you two have each other, you two can get through any and everything.
Good Luck my friend

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tnotter offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 week after post)

Believe me, she is NOT “the one” if she slept with her strip club boss and is only a 20 year old girl. It sounds to me like you are very young man and should be concentrating on what to do with your life and career rather than worrying yourself over a girl who hasn’t grown up yet. Find yourself, grow up a little more and then get a serious relationship with a woman who will appreciate you!

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