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15, never been kissed, not ugly, girls like me alot,

im just shy, my girlfriend used to be like all over her old bf, but he hurt her by not caring, i care alot and we love each other…but doesnt want to be kissed? umm, help?

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

did she directly say she didnt want to or has she not made a move? she may be shy or waiting for you to make the first move. talk to her, be open. funny, my bf and i had never been with anyone else, i was so confused and didnt know how to make a move.. he ended up looking right at me and painly asking ‘can i kiss you?’ lucky for us we both have a good sense of humor… but hell, it worked. lol im not saying you have to be that open, but it helps to talk.

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hershbergerblak offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

she flat out said she wants to wait for the moment…she used to be like almost a ****. lol, and i am veerrryyy open, lol

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szchc offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

I didnt have my first kiss until I was almost 18 and I had been seriously hurt by a guy friend…. the guy that I was dating( my first kiss) was wonderful and so patient. Give her some time and have her open up and talk to you about whats bothering her. Eventually the right moment will come.

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hershbergerblak offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

yeah….but, like….nvrmnd, screw this

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Keckers offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (54 minutes after post)

Oh for ***** sake.
You’re only bloody 15 , I think you can wait a year or something.

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1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

at least ur not gay… =/

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hershbergerblak offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

lol, how would you know?

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (19 hours, 33 minutes after post)

hershbergerblak wrote:
lol, how would you know?

you said you were with a girl. we assumed.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

u said “her old bf” so i assumed u were the new one.. (^@^)>

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fulai_00 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 days, 9 hours after post)

it’s not bad,just to make a move

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Kyou Rose offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Maybe she’s like my sister, who with her first bf was all over and what not then he hurt her pretty bad and then with her next bf she was really slow and what not to make sure that everything isn’t gonna turn out like the first guy who just used her. She proably just trying to be cautious. And my first kiss was at 16 and my sisters was 16 and a half. Its really not that bad waiting. But Talk to her and find out why she said that. See if there is anything you can do. But, if I were you I wouldn’t push it to much.

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albert.dzisa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

Don,t worry my love every thing will be alright ,now you have meet the one you will never forget in your life which is me, am the only one who can help you. this is what i want to tell you. goodbye my love.

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varekaiartist007 offline Verified User (1 week, 1 day) Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 days, 12 hours ago (1 month after post)

albert.dzisa wrote:
DON,T WORRY MY LOVE EVERY THING WILL BE ALRIGHT ,NOW YOU HAVE MEET THE ONE YOU WILL NEVER FORGET IN YOUR LIFE WHICH IS ME, AM THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP YOU. THIS IS WHAT I WANT TO TELL YOU. GOODBYE MY LOVE.

Ummmm….I am sorry to say this but this is weird…. the part that I think is weird is “you will never forget in your life which is me”

So you are 15 and you are in love and she won’t kiss you? Sounds strange. My first boyfriend who was my first everything (bf, kiss, love, heartbreak, ex, back together, ect.) was 17 when I was 16 and we ended up breaking up after a year. I was cautious of everything with him and we were in love but now I have a new bf… I guess all I am trying to say is take it slow and don’t stress.

She seems like she likes you (A LOT) and I find it strange that she searched you on here…. but never the less, I am not you so whatever.

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