girl help: I’ve been with my boyfriend for two and a half years now.

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for two and a half years now.

I’ve known him for 5.He’s 21 and I’m 19. He has a best girlfriend. this bothers me. He has known her longer than hes known me, so i cant really say much on that. its just, she moved out of state and she barely calls him, then when she comes back for a week she calls and he goes and hangs out with her instead of me. yeah i know i get to see him all the time, but he even took time off work to see her. then, he told me shes thinking abotu moving back and that they might get an apartment together. I’m not going to be moving in with them from what i understand. this is the main problem, is it wrong for me to think this is wrong? if anything, he should be finding a place with me,not her. and if they do move in together, he gets to go home to her every night, not me. I just want more opinions on this. help?

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htcmichael 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

Read the handwriting on the wall…you are being emotionally abused. Move on before you lose your self-esteem.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 hours, 29 minutes after post)

If he really love you. he don’t move in an apartment with her he will move with you only if he really love you and if he really love you he take a day off for you not for him. Be carefull…its better you move on and find someone that really loves you not love her friends. Better now then more late trust me…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (7 hours, 22 minutes after post)

your being extremely selfish, and you have trust issues.
if you wanted to move in with him, then tell him. dont just go getting jealous. fastest way to drive a guy away.

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1 month, 1 week ago (9 hours, 26 minutes after post)

The thing is, he never told me he wanted to move until he brought up her. and If he did want to move, why didnt he discuss it with me before he discussed it with her? I admit i do get jealous sometimes, but this is more than that i think. I’m talking to him about it when we see each other tomorrow night.

Abba Zabba 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (14 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Uhh, I think in this case he’s f****** with you to be honest. You’ve been with him for two and a half years, yet he’s moving in with his best girl ‘friend’? Could you imagine how he would feel if it were you and a guy friend. Yeah, that seems f***** up. I would be upset about it.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

Leave him i would be angry you been together 2years now and he’s thinking of moving in with his best girlfriend? but he’s never brought up the idea with moving in with you yea no either talk to him about it and if he doesnt like what you have to say then forget him you can do better and find someone else

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