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Girl vs University degree.

I need help/advise with a problem,

Its like this, I’m working on my final paper for the university, things are not going as planed so I’m working days and nights on it to make use I get it done on time so I can get my degree. ‘No problem here’ I hear you thinking, but wait, there is this girl.

This girl is one of the coolest and nicest girls I have ever met. I think she is into me too because she replays to all my messages op face book right away.

Now here is the real problem, I just don’t have the time to do my final paper and go after this girl.
So risk my degree and go for it, maybe get both or none.
Or play is safe and don’t get the girl.

Girl vs University degree.

I really need advise!
Thank you

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ƒɍȧḉԎȧɫ online Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 290 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

How long have you been at Uni now? Come on, that’s a lot of hard work to ‘risk’ by stopping dedicating your time to it. It’s not worth it. Yeah I know I’d be feeling exactly the same way in your circumstance; but do you even know for certain how this girl feels?

If she genuinely likes you (even just as a freind) then she’ll want to wait until you have some proper time to spend with her; she’ll be interested in what you’re doing (even if she doesn’t really understand it) and will know it’s important to you and how hard you’ve worked on it.

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

This is really simple. Get your head down and do this degree, ask for this girls number and tell her youd like to see her sometime when your not bussy with uni.

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Soulless offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Hey fractal en Joshy,

I think your both right,

I just need to get this done, and hope she is stil around.

I need a time machine :P

PS: did I tell you that this girl is cool, smart and good liking!

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ƒɍȧḉԎȧɫ online Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 290 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Hey; we’re guys. We think almost every girl is cool, smart and good looking :P
But yeah I know; you really like this one. Just do what you need to do and if she’s still around then she’s worth getting to know because she’s genuinely interested. If she doesn’t want to wait while you do what you gotta do then she basically doesn’t really care anyway right?

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Fantastic, I’m glad she is all that and a bag of chips, get her number and tell her your bussy with uni but when you have time youd like to take her out.

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Miss Jessica Bunny offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

They’re right. I’d respect a guy alot more that concentrated on his studies first rather than threw it away chasing a piece of skirt.

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shosta8 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Haha I’m going to go against the grain and say go after her. There are some things that money can’t buy… she may not pop up again. Go after what makes you happy. Chances are you can have both :) otherwise you’ll regret not trying.

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

shosta8 wrote:
Haha I’m going to go against the grain and say go after her. There are some things that money can’t buy… she may not pop up again. Go after what makes you happy. Chances are you can have both :) otherwise you’ll regret not trying.

and if he goes for her and it ends badly then hes wasted umpteen years in uni for nothing and has wasted it all on a girl. I say get her number, tell her youd like to take her out when you have time away from uni. Simple and efective.

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alex_t offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

^ disregard all the above regardless of what it says.

Degree.

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 144 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

alex_t wrote:
^ disregard all the above regardless of what it says.

Degree.

i said Degree, infact all of us said degree accept for shosta lol

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

stop letting your wenis do the thinking for you.

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alex_t offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Didn’t bother reading it tbh :)

It looked like too much debate when the answer was so simple.

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

hmmm
cool, smart, and good looking
haaha lol, are you dreaming :P it’s a good looking girl who can cook and clean haha
you need to wake up man :P, such ppl dont exist :P…

kidding aside if she was so smart she will understand that you need time to do the papers and stuff, so get close to her and then tell her that you need time and stuff…

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Soulless offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

@alex_t: Your probably right.
@shosta8: I really want to agree with you and get both.

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alex_t offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

It surely can’t be that difficult to talk to a girl a bit while you’re doing your degree, just don’t let it affect your studying.

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Soulless offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

@alex_t: I already talk with the girl, every time I dump in to her and on facebook.

Thanks for all your advise people.

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alex_t offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

I hope your degree isn’t in english :)

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 hours, 39 minutes after post)

dood you…dump into her?

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Ohiogran offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

Earn your degree. earn your degree. true love is patient.

Again earn your degree and when she dumps you—you have a degree and a future.

Or earn your degree and look for a better girl/woman.

Don’t be a first class idiot. earn your degree.

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nooneknow offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Take the degree. You can always win the girl back if you really love her but once you leave college most people don’t go back. (Trust me, I had the same problem when I was getting my first PhD, everything worked out for the best though)

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mech10 offline Verified User (3 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (3 weeks, 3 days after post)

I’d go after the girl, but I have 2 degrees, and will have another in a few months. But it seems to me that if chasing this girl is a full time job then she probably isn’t worth it, and if she is worth it, really worth it, it’s not like one more semester is such a bad thing. But remember, I have no girl, degree’s are just fancy paper.

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sami_jilde offline Verified User (1 week, 2 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 2 days ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

University
Look at this from this way,
what is the most important-the girl or -your Degree
choose…

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