I had the most embaressing thing happen. - Help.com

First thing you should do is tell your boyfriend how serious you take your condition and is nothing to be made fun of.

Tell his how insensitive he is to have told his friends about it because that should have been kept between you and him. And, he should stop teasing you about it or that you would rather be by yourself because you don’t need a reminder of how bad your condition is. If he has any smarts and he truly loves you he will stop teasing you, telling his friends, apologize, and he will be on the look out for when these happen to you again and be ready to take care of you however necessary.

But, I’m sorry I’m going to say this from what you have said about your boyfriend, he does not sound like a loving, caring, sensitive, supportive person. He sounds like he and his friends are going to have a good old time at your expense. And, the snickering and smirks won’t stop.

My opinion is for you to dump him until you get better and then you can find someone else whom you can count on 1000%. Because from the sounds of it, you’re boyfriend is as useless as breasts full of milk on an angry bull. He does not sound like he is ready to take care of you. He sounds like an immature adolescent who just wants to have a good time at your expense.

I hope that gives you some kind of perspective.

As far as being embarrassed, things like this happen and you should just try to forget it. I know it sounds easy but don’t let this bog you down or depress you. It’s a condition that you have and you are dealing with it the best you can.

I hope I helped.

I certainly hope doctors can take care of the hemorrageing, that is the most important thing here. As for the embarrassment, I wouldn’t worry about it. Yeah, it was humiliating at the time, but it would seem you’ve got bigger fish to fry! You need to get yourself better so you can get off the meds. The reaction by your “boyfriend” and “friend” does worry me. If they are truely concerned for your well-being, they should be downplaying the incident and certainly NOT sharing the story!! You may need to assess your relationship with them. I’ve been trying to think of your boyfriends motivation, but I can’t come up with a single reason why someone that is dedicated to you would purposely set out to make you a topic of humor. Not cool.