Love help: I like this guy but my friends don’t think he’s very cool. - Help.com

you really have no idea?

Does it really matter if your friends don’t think that the guy you like is cool? If you like him then you shouldn’t be letting them affect your opinions. Just be yourself around him, and if he feels the same way about you, he might actually ask you.

If you like him, what do you care what your friends think? Are you going to let your friends dictate how you can live your life or who you want to hang out with?

It doesn’t matter what your friends think. They don’t need to like him as long as you like him. I have never had a boyfriend that another friend of mine would have chosen.

The only thing is he flirts with me and I do that back but how do I get him to ask
me out?

Ask him what he’s doing over the weekend, maybe that will give him a hint.

ahaha i had the same problem! everyone jokes that he likes me, and i just decided i like him too because i’m the only one who realizes that he acts goofy to make us laugh and that he can be really serious and amazing when you just talk to him one on one. He told me that he liked me once, and i wasn’t quite sure if he was joking or not because it’s part of the running joke that he is obsessed with me. So i asked him if he was serious, and he looked in my eyes and said “yeah i was.” Aghhhh he was so cute! D: I told him to prove it, and he kissed me. It’s been really great recently because no one knows… someone will make some joke like “haha yeahh i wonder why he wants to be ALONE with madeline” XD and he’ll just catch my eye and laugh. I tease him about being a dork but i love him haha

Tell him that a new movie came out and you want to go see it but you don’t have anybody to go with. If he doesn’t get the hint, he’s too dense.

But the last time I asked a guy out it ended badly

You’re not asking him, you’re merely hinting and if he wants to go out with you, he will get the hint.

But everyone wants to go to the
movies with me but he knows that I would be lieing

im a guy, and i would be insulted if a girl whom i shared a connection with, didnt want me because i ‘wasnt cool’, i think uve got your priorieties wrong. i think friends are more important than partners and if my friends didnt like a girl because she was a ***** than, she wouldnt be worth it, but ‘cool’ doesnt even exist its just some rubbish idea that some people are ‘better’ than others and if u go for guys that are ‘cool’ regardless of if u like them over more genuine relationships then youll be unhappy.

ive had the same situaton. if you like him, then go for him. you shouldnt care what your friends or anyone else thinks. just as long as your happy.